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Bonding with Baby - Handy Guide for Dads to Get-Set-Go
Traditionally it was considered that the mother should be in charge of the child and was held responsible for his growth and development. The father was seen as the provider of economic resources to maintain the family. But today, men have started to assume their role as fathers in a more active way. Both male and female energies are required so that the child grows into a balanced and complete human being.
Easy Tips for Dads to Get-Set-Go
1. Start Early
Get yourself involved right from conception. You can do the following to show your care:
a) Accompany your partner on visits to the doctor.
b) Plan the baby's welcome together.
c) Attend pre-natal informative classes.
d) Make suitable changes in your lifestyle.
e) Make her pregnancy and mood-swings a pleasurable and memorable journey.
f) Connect with the baby, talk to the baby in the womb.
g) Make arrangements for a safe and secure delivery.
h) Read books and put on good soothing music for your spouse and baby.
2. Make Time
Fathers need to pay attention to their work schedule on getting the good news.
Just don't "pay" the "rent", now you are a "parent".
Do not overwork yourself just because you have another mouth to feed. Instead, enjoy with the baby because these precious moments will not come back.
His first smile, first attempt to sit, first attempt to walk, talk, first words said, first cricket shot, first nursery rhyme, etc... Make it at the right time!
3. Show Your Love
Hugging, holding, cuddling, kissing and doing all sort of warm and caring actions would not make you less manly. Affection is reassuring. It conveys love in a way that words and worries cannot.
4. Brighten Up
Enjoy your child's company. He is a little bundle of joy who gives immense pleasure. Teach him what you know and learn some new things along with your child. Convert stress, competition and performance-oriented things into pleasure, joy and laughter.
5. Heavy Down
It may sound contrary to the earlier point, but what it means is to get involved in decisions and discussions with your partner while deciding things for the family or children.
Be communicating with your partner regarding big
things in life, such as -
"How are we doing as a family?"
"What changes are needed?"
"How can we achieve them together?", etc.
Let not your partner ever say that she has one more additional child (you!) to be managed besides your children. Do not leave all the tough decisions to your partner like choosing the doctor, selecting the activity classes, choosing a school, the child’s age wise needs, etc.
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9 Signs the Universe is Trying to Tell You Something
Many times, I've been frustrated by how things weren't turning out the way I wanted them to. I've felt caught in a spiral or loop with no idea about where I'm going and what's happening. At such times, I've asked the Universe for guidance.
I believe that the Universe tries to communicate with us. It constantly wishes the best for us and sends out messages disguised as hints. But, we invariably fail to recognise them or think of them as coincidence or luck. So, here are 9 signs which, I feel, we should always be on the lookout for and heed them to make our lives better.
1. Repeating Numbers
There's a reason you're seeing repeating numbers like 111, 222 or 333 everywhere. This could be the clock showing 11:11 or you suddenly spotting flat no 222 on the name board.
Have you ever thought about what it could mean? It could be a sign that you need to break your old habits as major life changes are coming your way.
2. Songs
Music is the key to our soul. Many songs have certain memories of a person or incident attached to them. When you wake up in the morning and have a song stuck in your head, it's a sign you're dwelling too much on the feelings associated with that song. You need to carefully assess this and let go if they cause you pain. One thing I did was to remove those songs from my playlist so that I wouldn't be tempted to listen to them again and again. Or perhaps you can go to another place, plug in your earphones and get immersed in the song. You'll always remember the latest experience you had with the song.
3. Printed Words, Images and Visuals
If you're clairvoyant, you are a person who pays attention to the small details in life. Words, images and other visuals may catch your eye quickly. It's just the Law of Attraction working for you.
Before I married my husband, I used to see things and people associated with the military everywhere. Notice whether the Universe is taking you on a certain life path. It's most likely to be good for you.
4. Repeating Events
Repeating events are usually a pattern that you've got yourself into. It can be annoying to experience the same thing over and over again, like constantly losing things, getting into arguments about the same topic, poor relationship with money, etc. Once you identify this pattern, you can use the opportunity to take a mental inventory of what you need to heal and move on from it.
5. Finding Objects
You might have lost something years ago and forgotten all about it. What if you find it suddenly? It might make you think why you found it today of all years?
Understand what the Universe is trying to tell you. Maybe you need to again get in touch or strengthen your bond with that person or place.
6. Smells
Some people are quite reactive to smells and a particular smell immediately takes them back to memories linked to that smell. Maybe it was how your grandparents' house smelt or a flower that reminds you of a person who gave it to you the first time. Whatever it may be, suddenly getting that smell out of nowhere is a sign that you've been neglecting that person or place.
7. Feelings
Let me give you a 1-min experiment to find out whether something is positive or not. First of all, close your eyes and ask the Universe to give you guidance about whatever you're going to ask. Then, tune into your inner self and pop the question. Do you feel something in your body?
If your gut becomes heavy or you feel uneasy, it's likely that the thing is bad for you. A positive person or event will always evoke a general feeling of happiness and energy in your body. Always listen to your gut. It's trying to tell you something.
8. Dreams
Our dreams don't usually have a literal meaning. For example, dreaming about your own death is actually a sign of something new coming up in your life. It is a sign so clear that once you heed it, life becomes much sweeter.
9. When Your Left Eye Twitches
In Indian culture, some believe that the left eye twitching for a female is a sign of good things to come. On the other hand, if the right eyelid of a woman twitches, it's a bad omen.
For men, it's opposite with left meaning negative and right meaning positive.In our daily lives, there are numerous such signs that we come across yet don't recognise. When we learn to pick up on these signs, we can make a proactive effort to better our lives.
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Taking Nifedipine during Pregnancy - Is It Safe?
Nifedipine is one of the most effective drugs to prevent the unwanted early labour. If you are heading towards preterm labour for unexplained reasons, then chances are your doctor will put you on Nifedipine. However, before taking this drug, first, you need to understand its use and side effects. It may work like magic for many pregnant women, but the same may not hold true for you. Moreover, it may even not be suitable for you subject to its side effects.
What Is Nifedipine?
Nifedipine is an anti-contraction medicine. It helps in slowing down the uterine contractions which in turn delays the preterm labour. It is a calcium channel blocker which helps in treating medical conditions like high blood pressure and heart diseases.
How Does Nifedipine Work during Pregnancy
Basically, nifedipine slows down the contractions in the uterus since its a calcium channel blocker and the uterus requires calcium to contract. However, nifedipine obstructs the pathways, preventing calcium to reach to the uterus. So, you must be wondering how it helps in delaying the labour, aren't you? Nifedipine blocks the calcium and allows the uterus and other soft tissues in one’s body to relax which in turn delays the labour.
When Is Nifedipine Used in Pregnancy
Typically, your doctor will put you on nifedipine if you are susceptible to an unexplained preterm labour. The following cases usually lead to the prescription of nifedipine by your doctor:
If you are diagnosed with thinning of regular uterine contractions, and if your cervix dilates to 4 cm way earlier than your due date.
An outbreak of unexpected labour, even while the mother’s amniotic sac is intact.
Unexpected labour, despite the fact that the foetus is not in distress and still has time until the due date.
When other uterus contraction preventing medicines such as terbutaline (Beta- Sympathetic medicine) proves to be ineffective.
If the intake of other drugs has been ceased considering the unwanted side effects.
If there is a need to delay the labour for 24 to 48 hours to treat other underlying conditions such as corticosteroid treatment (lungs of the foetus are treated).
Side Effects of Nifedipine during Pregnancy
Although nifedipine works wonder for most of the women, by delaying the preterm labour, it has a few side effects like many other medicines. Usually, it is believed to inflict no damage or side effects on mother or on her child with an exception to serious medical cases. Following are some of the common side effects of taking nifedipine during pregnancy:
Headaches
Constipation
Nausea
Dizziness
Low blood pressure
Red skin rashes
Diarrhoea
Hot or warm flashes
Heart palpitations
Feeling faintSS ID: 613064750 (ALT:<A pregnant woman with a headache>)
Tips for Pregnant Women
It is always recommended to avoid any sort of unnecessary medication, especially, if it is something which is not prescribed by your doctor. Following are some tips for you to have a better understanding:
It is highly unlikely for your doctor to prescribe this medicine unless in case of sudden preterm labour. Moreover, in any other situation, this medicine will not be used at any point during pregnancy.
Pregnancy is a delicate phase. Ensure that you follow through the advice of your doctor and are taking your medications on time.
Nifedipine and such other medicines are prescribed only in extreme cases.
If there is a possibility of using nifedipine during preterm labour, then it’s always better to discuss it in detail with your gynaecologist to rule out any odds.
Pregnancy requires the utmost level of care to ensure the safety of mother and child. If you are expected to have a preterm labour for reasons other than medical, then it becomes even more crucial for you to pay attention towards your health and well-being.
To analyse your condition precisely, your doctor also requires your correct medical history. So, always be honest to communicate your medical history with your doctor.
When To Call a Doctor
During pregnancy, you will experience a multitude of changes in your body. However, understanding those changes and their timings is also crucial to rule out any odd event. Normally, a normal pregnancy lasts about 40 weeks. However, if one’s labour starts during at 37th week or before that, then it may prove harmful to both, mother and child. Hence, it is advisable to seek medical attention as early as possible. Following are some symptoms indicating that you need to visit a doctor at earliest:
Frequent contractions
Lower abdominal pressure
Vaginal spotting or bleeding
Pelvic pressure
Vaginal discharge
Diarrhoea
Water breaking
Consult with your doctor right away if you experience any of the above symptoms or other issues. It’s always better to address an issue at its earlier stage to ensure safety and health of the mother and her child. It is also recommended that you consult with your doctor before taking any medication, especially, if it’s a drug like nifedipine which is used only in the emergency situations.
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Is It Baby Blues Or Postpartum Depression?
Giving birth to a baby and taking care of him is not easy. It can be quite stressful for you, both physically and emotionally. Considering the changes that accompany childbirth - new responsibilities, sleep deprivation, fatigue and no time to look after yourself - you are likely to go on an emotional coaster ride as the hormones that helped you through your pregnancy will immediately change post delivery. Your hormones and emotions are closely related, and a sudden change can cause mood swings that can be overwhelming. Nearly 80% of mothers experience this state, commonly known as the ‘Baby Blues’. It’s perfectly normal to experience it, and if the symptoms don’t go away in a few weeks or get worse, it may be an indication of postpartum depression.
How to Differentiate Between Postpartum Depression and the Baby Blues?
Post-childbirth, your hormone levels change significantly. The drop in estrogen and progesterone levels and changes in metabolism, immune system functioning and blood pressure can trigger postpartum depression or baby blues. Physical changes to the body and the stress of coping with changes in your life after being a new mother can also add to the problem. Most women experience at least a few of the symptoms of baby blues soon after childbirth. Initially, the symptoms of baby blues and postpartum depression are almost similar, such as mood swings, sadness, crying jags, irritability and insomnia. For a better understanding of the two, here is a breakdown of postpartum depression and baby blues:
Signs of Baby Blues
Feeling tearful unexpectedly is the first sign of baby blues. This is something that starts a few days after giving birth; the pregnancy hormones subside and are on their way out while your breast milk is steadily rising. You would feel a need to weep at even the most trivial things happening to you or around you. Therefore have the tissues at hand and let it all out when you feel the need.
You may also snap at your loved ones now and then. Unlike the ideal mom you planned on being from day one, you’ll find yourself irritable and snap at everyone around you. As your body prepares for some major physical changes and sleep deprivation hits you, it is natural to get annoyed at simple errors the people around you make. Try not to worry about the years of motherhood ahead of you and get some rest.
You will be exhausted but unable to sleep; the ongoing stress will keep you from falling asleep. Your mother or friend probably warned you about this, and now this will happen to you. You won't be able to sleep whenever you want because you'll have to take care of your little one, even when your body is demanding for rest. This is a most common experience with baby blues that mothers experience.
You may feel anxious or worried. When you look back at the stress, you felt at work, or when you moved to a new house, it wouldn't be even close to what you'll feel now. Even though your baby is safe and healthy, and your childbirth went well, yet you'll feel anxious about the smallest things. In this case, blame it on baby blues. It can make you more worried and anxious for no reason at all.
Baby blues will make it harder for you to concentrate, and you may become more forgetful. This is also very common as your house will be filled with visitors and you'll have a hard time following any conversation. You may also find it hard to focus and become more forgetful of things. This all part of the changes you’re going through and will pass as things start to settle in a few weeks.
Signs of Postpartum Depression
At first, the signs of postpartum depression (PPD) are very similar to baby blues; they can also present themselves a little stronger. However first-time moms can easily miss the difference. The most common symptoms are mood swings, insomnia, irritability, crying, and sadness.
One the most characteristic marker of the onset of PPD is the length of time that it lasts. While baby blues last from a few days to a week, PPD becomes apparent only after a few weeks. It can stay for months when left untreated.
The stark difference between baby blues and PPD are suicidal thoughts. Having feelings of harming yourself or harming the baby or if you experience irrational fears of your baby being harmed, are all major red flags.
PPD may make you fearful of normal things that happen with babies, and you may start thinking that it is your entire fault and you are not doing well enough a job as a mother.
Withdrawal from your partner or being unable to attend to and bond with your baby is another sign of postpartum depression.
Another sign of postpartum depression is feelings of anxiety that prevent you from functioning during the day or sleeping at night even when the baby is doing well. It could also be accompanied by feelings of hopelessness and an impending sense of doom.
You may also feel worthless. They might also change into thoughts preoccupied with death or wishing to be dead.
You may lose interest in activities that you once enjoyed.
A history of postpartum depression where the symptoms are similar to the last time.
Postpartum psychosis is a rare but much more severe problem that can develop after childbirth. It is primarily characterised by the loss of touch with reality accompanied by the risk of suicide or infanticide. Some of its symptoms include bizarre behaviour, delusions, hallucinations, extreme anxiety or agitation, disorientation, inability to eat and risk of harmful behaviour toward self or baby.
If you notice that your symptoms last for more than a few weeks, immediately consult a doctor because it might be postpartum depression.
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Guardian of 0 children
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Q. #asktheexpert
baby having nose block.. sleeping problem
what should I do?
Dr Sameer awadhiya
Paediatrician
1 hour ago
A. nasal blockage can be relieved by using nasal saline drops like nasoclear saline drops in thecg nose followed by nasal aspirator to take out the secretions very ghently
steam inhalation can also be helpful in this condition
Nikitha has added a new answer
Expecting Mom due in 2 months
1 hour ago
Q. At what month does the baby go from breech position to cephalic position?
Nikitha
Mom of a 9 yr 5 m old boy
1 hour ago
A. hello nearing your delivery it will happen.any concern then it would be better to check with your doctor and she will be able to guide you better on examination of the same and advise you accordingly which would be better and also safe
Dr Vandan H Kumar has added a new answer
Guardian of 0 children
1 hour ago
Q. @ the time of birth baby weight 2.475kg but after completed 6weeks baby weight approx 3kg, why baby weight gain very slow, till breast-feeding milk and urinate 6-7 times and potty 2-3 times. can u please suggest why slow in progress in weight gain???
Read moreDr Vandan H Kumar
Paediatrician
1 hour ago
A. the average birth weight of neonates is about 3 kg.
during the first few days after birth, the newborn loses
extracellular fluid equivalent to about 10% of the body
weight.
most infants regain their birth weight by the age of 10 days. subsequently, they gain weight at a rate of
approximately 25 to 30 g per day for the first 3 months of life.
thereafter they gain about 400 g weight every month,
for the remaining part of the first year. x
an infant usually doubles his birth weight (taken as 3 kg) by the age of 5 months. the birth weight triples at 1 year and is four times at 2 years of age.
the weight of ca child at the age of three years is usually
five times that of the birth weight.
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Q. #asktheexpert mera baby 3 month ka h use gas bhuat banti h is karan wo bhuat rota hai
Manisha Singh
Expecting Mom due in 1 month
47 mins ago
A. it's very common for babies having gas problem ...you should recommend your doctor for this
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Q. Hi
what to give 6 months old baby to eat
Sai Prasanthi R L
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53 mins ago
A. Hello dear! Once your baby completes 6 months you can start giving small quantities of semi solids like homemade cerelac, mashed bananas, apple puree, ragi and so on. Continue with breastfeeding. Keep Babyhug tummy roll on handy
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Q. now I am in 30 weeks of pregnancy I have vomiting.I couldn't control what the reasons for this vomiting
Dr Muhsina
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A. Some women may have vomiting throughout their pregnancy. The most common reason for vomiting during the third trimester may be gastritis. Make sure you eat small frequent meals, preferably every 2 hours. If your baby's weight during checkups are adequate..u needn't worry much about this. You can also consult your doctor and take anti emetics and PPIs if the vomiting is bothering you or interfering with your daily activities.
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