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Is Motherhood Really Challenging?
I was very excited when I saw 2 pink lines on the home pregnancy kit I had. On the day I found out that I was pregnant, we were supposed to attend a family function. I didn’t get my periods and after taking the test I was sure that I was pregnant. My husband and I were very happy with this news. Later, we told about it to our family.The whole nine months of my pregnancy were absolutely beautiful. The journey of pregnancy is really a journey of happiness, pampering, food cravings, scans, medicines, and doctor visits. One good thing was that my husband was with me all the time, caring for me. I was curious to find out if it was a girl or a boy. The days passed, and the and the basic rituals like the baby shower were performed.The day came when my water broke, and I was taken to the hospital. I experienced severe pain during labour. Then I experienced pain due to C-section delivery.Finally, I saw my little angel with shining eyes and pink lips. Her eyes were wide open and I think she was looking at us. It was a heavenly feeling, especially when I realised that I had the power to bring a new life into this world. The next challenging task was breastfeeding. After a long practise with nipple shields and breast pumps, my little one got used to drinking milk.My image in the mirror was completely different from what I looked before pregnancy. As a new mother, whatever task I start has no full-stop. If I doing something, and my baby needs me, I leave that thing in the middle and attend my baby. My conversations with my hubby and friends have decreased from hours to minutes. My priorities have changed, and every day, I am coming across new challenges. But one thing is for sure that kids bring out the best in parents. Kids also bring discipline in the lives of parents.Even though I get a few hours of sleep at night, I am happy when I look at my little one’s face in the morning. I am so thankful that diapers exist because when I put a diaper on my baby, she sleeps comfortably.Now I understand how my mother must have taken care of me. The mother in me says, "Yes, motherhood is really challenging". I have realised that it is hard to be a mother but at the same time, it is an enriching experience.
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Challenges faced by a new mom : 5 difficult things about being a new mom
The first few weeks with the baby are actually one ofthe hardest phase that a new mom faces. Sharing with you few ofthe challenges and some suggestions on how one can sail through them,as the challenges are constant for all new moms.
1) You are a different you :
Even after the delivery many moms still continue to look absolutely like in their last phases of pregnrncy and that belly doesn’t go easily. Your body shape becomes very absurd and cherry on the top is excessive hairfall. Don’t silently criticise yourself
or feel ashamed of. It takes time and efforts to come back to your original self. Always think about the livingmiracle you have in front of you and rememberthat your bodywill come back to its shape soon. Join exercises, take walks
and focus on your diet.
2) Zombiephase : sleep deprivation:
This is one if the hardest facts for which you have to be ready. People will pour you with suggestions like match your sleep with baby, etc..but nothing works. Its like an alarm clock ringing in every 2-3hrs. This may result in headache, memory confusions,
etc. It’s all normal. Every new mom faces this. In this the only solution is - call for help, have strong support, use breast feeding pumps to keep milk ready for your baby and try to match your sleep with your baby. Try meditation to keep yourself
calm.This phase lasts for around 5-6 weeks and then the baby starts setlling down.
3) Breastfeeding can be tough:
This is not as easy as it appears. Incase one opts of breastfeeding then onehasto be ready for range of challenges like - latching issues, painful feeding, lack of milk production. These are very common problems one can face and I had faced
all three. But dont feel sador get demotivated. Its a relation that builds over time and allow time to both yourself and your baby to understand this process. Take medical guidance wherever needed from lactation perspective.
4) You are in pain and facing harmonal changes:
Whether you had a c-sec or normal delivery, you will be in pain for few weeks. And you should take extreme good care of yourself. Don’t push your body or criticise yourself for not beingable to do any minute thing. Call for help and focus only on
yourself and your baby. Do simple breathing exercises to keep yourself calm and always remember that your health will in future help your child. Soto have his healthy tomorrow your today has to be cautious and healthy.
5) The baby takes time to acclimatise:
The new creature knows you but will still appear as a stranger for few days. Don’t expect that the baby will stop crying themoment you hold him, no this happens only in movies. The baby just need two things in initial days - food & sleep, any
alterations or disturbance can make him cranky. So dont expect yourself to be a healer with whoseone touch will calm him down. But yes, this does happens over weeks and you know that the bond is set when you receiveyour first thankyou
in the formof his brightsmile.Have pateince and keep yourself happy. Have good and happy people around, avoid any negetive thoughts or people withwhom you don’tfeel connected at all.
The first few weeks are definitely hard, but they pass the fastest and at the end you as a new mom will feel proud that you survived it. Read more
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First 6 months baby should have breastfeeding only.....
From 4th month I started to feed apple pure to my baby.
By 6th month I preferred to serve apple flavour cereal to my baby.
From 10th month, I used to serve rice and masoor dal, and wheat and urad dal, and they fry and grind, then heat water and mix 1 tablespoon and serve my baby.
After 12months started rice with rasam... and curd
Now she is 16 months, she likes to eat egg chicken and all recipes.
Day by day she develops very fast, so we have to give her rich protein and iron ....
Carrot , milk , chicken, egg , fish , leaf vegetables are very good for babies' health and development.....
Fruits also very good ... daily 1 banana for weight gain and cow milk is best for babies.... all are different, we have to plan as per their taste .... and give them healthy snacks....
Don't give children too many sugar chocolates... its better to avoid until they turn 1 year...
And dry fruits should be given babies after 1 year only .... they can't digest dry fruits at an early age....
And bathe daily two times for relaxation...
And make them wear white clothes as much as possible....
Use only baby soaps...
My story....
I get pregnant... I feel excited... months are moving fast .... reached 9th, feel like seeing my little baby ..... finally May 31st went to operation theatre...feeling very scared.... I heard my little baby cry then relaxed; doctors told me you're blessed with baby girl.... I am feeling very happy, waiting to see her.... first time I saw her face but my eyes were fully covered with tears ... totally blur, then I try to hold her, felt very happy... when seeing my little baby for the first time, one nickname came to my mind- Shiny.... so I called her Shiny......then came home after 7 days of my delivery and when I entered our house, I felt a new atmosphere.... her 28th day we named her ASHIKA and then days passed..1 month, 2 month, 3month ... at at end of her 6th month, she tried crawling and 12 months got completed.. excited for her 1st birthday celebrations.... and then she walked by herself in 14th month.... now she is 16 months..my little angel.....
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जगण्याला मिळाली नवीन दिशा
खरंच आहे हो जीवनात जेव्हा परिस्थिती आपल्या हातात नसते, तेव्हा प्रत्येक माणूस गड़बडून जातो, असंच काहीसं घडलं क्षमा बरोबर. पण ती सर्वात मोठी बहीण होती चार भावंडांची.
गव्हर्नमेंट प्रेस मध्ये होते तिचे वडील आणि एका एकीच त्यांची तब्येत बिघडली आणि ऑफिसच्या लोकांनी त्यांना घरी सोडले, पाणी मागितले, घाम सुटला आणि त्यांना देवाज्ञा झाली. क्षमा वर सर्व जबाबदारी आली, आता आईसह भावंडांना पण सांभाळायचे गरजेचे होते.
ती खंबीरपणे परिस्थितीला सामोरी गेली. कुटुंबाला आर्थिक मदत केली. नगर निगम मध्ये सर्विस करत होती आणि तेथे वातावरण पण तेव्हां चांगले नसायचे, तरी घराचे संगोपन करण्यासाठी प्रयत्नशील राहून सर्व काम मुलगी असून पण मुला सारखेच संपवत असे.
आता आईला काळजी वाटायची, हिचे लग्न कसे व्हायचे म्हणून पण ती मात्र खंबीरपणे कुणाचा विचार न करता भावंडाना चांगले शिक्षण मिळावे ह्यासाठी प्रयत्न करत होती आणि त्यात यश मिळवत होती.
कधी-कधी जीवनात आपल्याला असेच काही निर्णय आपल्या माणसांसाठी घेणं गरजेचं असतं कारण की आपण त्यांच्यासाठी जगात आलेलो असतो.
प्रत्येकाने आपल्यातला मी काढून टाकला न तर सर्व उत्तरे आपल्याला सापडतील. मग पुढे तिने फक्त आपल्या हातात जे होते ते केले. भावंडांचे भविष्य चांगले व्हावे यासाठी ती सतत प्रयत्नशील होती.
त्याचबरोबर तिने एम.ए. हिंदीच्या परीक्षा सतत अभ्यास करून चांगल्या मार्काने पास केली, त्याचा फायदा तिला लवकरच मिळाला आणि तिला सेक्शन हेड़ म्हणून प्रमोट केले.
आर्थिक बाजू बळकट झाल्यामुळे पैसा अड़का काहीच त्रास झाला नाही आणि भावांचे शिक्षण सुद्धा निश्चिन्तपणे पूर्ण झाले. आईला मात्र काळजी वाटायची की दिवसेंदिवस वय होतं चालले होते क्षमाचे, पण परिस्थितीला तोंड देण्यासाठी साठी तिने आपल्या लग्नाचा विचार न करता आपल्या भावंडांची लग्न लाऊन दिली आणि त्यांच्या संसारात रमून गेली.
तिला फक्त वाटायचं की मी सर्वांची मदत करीन. नंतर भावांना पोर-बाळांच्या शिक्षणासाठी वेगवेगळ्या ठिकाणी जाणे भाग होते मग ते सुद्धा त्यांच्या संसारात रमून गेले.
क्षमा मात्र आपल्या आईबरोबरच राहिली. तिची पूर्ण सेवा करत होती. असेच काही दिवस सुरू होते, पण आपण म्हणतो न की कधी-कधी परिस्थिती आपल्या हातात नसते. एकेदिवशी आईलेकी मंदिरातून दर्शन घेऊन बाहेर आलेल्या, बघतात तर काय मंदिराच्या पायरीवर लहानशी छकुली दिसली, ती पायरीवरून पडणार तेवढ्यात क्षमाने कडेवर उचलून घेतले आणि गुरूजींना विचारले की कोणाची आहे हो. गुरूजी म्हणाले हे तर मला माहित नाही पण तुम्ही मात्र देवाने दिलेली लक्ष्मीला त्याचे प्रसादाचा रूपात स्वीकारा.
मग आई म्हणाली अग क्षमा गुरूजी बरोबरच तर म्हणतात आहे, देवाने दिलेली लक्ष्मीला स्वीकार कर. देवाने, हाच आशीर्वाद दिला असे समजून तिच्या जगण्याला एक नवीन दिशा दे म्हणजे तुझे हे जीवन सार्थक होईल.
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6 Most Difficult Questions Every Mom MUST Answer After Her Baby's Birth
Ask any woman who has become a mother and she will vouch for the fact that motherhood has given her one of the greatest joys in life. Becoming a mother is one of those experiences that change the world as you know it, introducing you to strengths that were hidden so far, and bringing you unparalleled love and affection. However, as mothers, we also experience several apprehensions and questions that we MUST answer – on our own.
Becoming a mother is life changing. Right from the period of pregnancy up until life post-delivery, your body undergoes many changes. Hormones are all over the place and everything seems rather confusing. However, just like every first time comes with its own share of experiences, lessons and difficulties, motherhood does too. If you are a new mommy, you must always remember that a mother's instinct is never wrong. When faced with societal pressure or criticism, just remember this and you will be able to find answers that work best for you and your baby.
Here are some of the questions you will be faced with after your baby’s birth. They are undoubtedly difficult but only you can answer them best.
1. 'Are You Getting Back To Work?'
Many mothers are asked this question right after their delivery! But it has no simple answer. If you choose to go back to work after the baby is born, there will be people to criticize you for being selfish. But if you choose to stay at home, you may be labelled old fashioned and perhaps incompetent.
Moms, it is very important to know that no one knows what’s best for your baby, except you. Therefore, such assumptions should never make you doubt your choices. Women are excellent multi-taskers. Getting back to work doesn't make you a bad mother as you will still manage to fulfil all your responsibilities. However, staying at home doesn't mean you are any less than the rest of the women. It's your decision and your parenting style. Evaluate your situation, also keeping in mind your career aspirations, financial situation and accessibility to help, and choose accordingly.
2. 'Are You Going To Let a Malishwali Touch Your Baby?'
Massaging a baby is a very common practice in India. It is believed that regular massage can help build strong and healthy bones and also help with keeping the baby's skin moisturised. However, hiring a third person to do the job comes with its own shares of risks and criticism. While some people say that maalishwalis know exactly how to massage the baby, there are some who think that they will not handle your baby carefully. You might be criticised for the oil she uses and “how hygiene is being compromised”.
When it comes to your baby, you are the decision maker. Getting professional help is never wrong and the details of the massage (how, when and using what oil) depend entirely on you. As long as you ensure hygiene, select a gentle oil for massage, and ensure that the lady handles your baby carefully, you are good to go. It is completely okay to get help for massaging your little one.
3. ' Are You Going To Use Soap To Bathe Your Baby?'
In our society, many people perceive that soaps and creams are chemically laden and will only cause harm to the baby's skin. They may go as far as to advise you not to bathe your baby at all! Moreover, elders of the family often suggest that only natural substances be used to cleanse or moisturise the baby. This may leave you in a complete fix as risking your baby's health is never on the agenda!
Well, times have now changed and so has the world around us. In the Indian weather and with rising levels of dust and pollution, not bathing or cleansing your baby regularly is not an option. You just have to ensure that the products you pick are safe and specially formulated to suit all baby skin types. The new Baby Dove range, for instance, is an excellent example of dermatologist and paediatrician-tested skincare that goes beyond mildness to replenish essential moisture and nutrients into baby’s skin. All products are hypoallergenic, pH neutral and gentle to the eyes with a mild and caring fragrance specifically developed for delicate baby skin. The Baby Dove Rich Moisture Baby Bar and Lotion ensure that your baby gets gentle cleansing and sufficient moisturisation during and after bath-time. The Baby Dove Rich Moisture Baby Bar contains Dove’s ¼ moisturising cream that leave delicate baby skin soft, nourished, and delicately scented. Plus, its pH neutral formula respects skin’s natural pH balance. While the Baby Dove Rich Moisture Lotion soothes dry skin from the first use and gently moisturises baby’s skin for 24 hours.
4. 'Are You Cleaning Your House Regularly? '
Every mother places her baby's health and safety above everything else. We know it is very crucial to keep the baby's immediate environment clean and tidy. However, being a new mother, it will be difficult to keep your entire house clean all the time. You will be exhausted and worn out, and once the baby starts crawling, it will not be possible to clean constantly without tiring yourself out completely!
There is no need to succumb to opinions that doubt your capability as a mother “who cannot keep her house tidy all the time”. Plus, raising kids in an over-sanitised environment doesn’t let their immune system develop properly. So, just do your best and don’t let others dictate your routine. Also consider getting paid help, if possible, and using disinfectants and sanitizers to ensure basic hygiene at home.
5. ' Are You Ensuring a Good Feed For Your Baby?'
As mothers, we know that breast milk is the best form of nutrition for your baby. Exclusive breastfeeding is recommended at least till the baby completes 6 months. However, as new mothers, it can sometimes be hard to decipher if the baby is feeding well or not. And when people around start asking the same question and giving their suggestions, it can put you in a great dilemma.
The key here is to not worry too much as stress will only affect your breast milk production. As long as the baby is gaining weight and taking the feed at regular time intervals, he/she is fine! If you have any concerns, discuss this with your paediatrician or a lactation consultant.
6. ‘Will You Be Able To Set a Good Example For Your Baby?'
This one is perhaps the most damaging for a mother’s morale, but it is not uncommon. When we step into the world of motherhood, it can be scary and rewarding at the same time. It's a beautiful journey where a woman, without losing her identity, transforms into a superhuman! But there will always be people around who say that you can barely keep things together; how will you handle your baby? These people doubt your capabilities and if you will be a good, rather ‘perfect’, mother.
Remember moms, every woman has an innate maternal instinct that never lets her down. It is important to always trust that and do what you think is the best for your little one. As Baby Dove’s philosophy beautifully puts it, there is no right or wrong way of being a mother, just your way! Every mother has a unique parenting style and that is what we need to believe in; we cannot be perfect, but we are all real, caring and loving moms.
They say, 'Mom knows best', and this really sums up what a mother's intuition is like. There will be no end to the clutter of advice, opinions and suggestions that will try and force you to act in a certain way, to push you to become the perfect mom. But the reality is, no one can be a perfect mother; perfection is only a myth. What we should do instead is answer all these questions by trusting our instincts and follow what our heart says. Nothing else can be better for you and your little darling! Read more
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Q. Am craving to have a burger at McDonald’s. Am 15 week pregnant.
Is it safe to have
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A. Hello there ma’am please do not worry about it too much and it is better to avoid this at this time and also if you want to eat burger then it is better to make it a home . Thanks and take care
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A. at present take rest and use medicines as advised by the doctor. if there is no relief it is better you see your doctor for proper examination particularly physical examination if there is need for doing investigations to find out the problem and treatment ok
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