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The First Personality Trait your Baby Is Quietly Learning From You
From the moment you first find out you are pregnant, to when you hold your baby in your arms, there is one thing you promise yourself. You will do your very best for the little one. You pledge to look after him always, teach him beautiful lessons of kindness and hard work, and hold his hand as he takes his first steps. But he is too little to learn all that yet...or is he? Well, as it turns out, there is something that your baby begins to learn soon after birth, in every moment that you spend together. Wondering what we are talking about?
Science has shown that babies are adept at picking up cues from their mother even at an early age. They can sense it when you are frazzled and anxious, and also when you are self-assured and calm. Every day, your baby sees you running around changing his diapers, moisturising his skin, giving him a bath, and tucking him into bed. You may feel sloppy and stressed about your new role, but to his observant little eyes, you are the best. It is through this daily observation that, as per child development experts, your little darling learns his first personality trait. Self-confidence.
How you can develop your self-confidence as a new mother
Before you set out teaching this lesson to your baby, it must first be strong in your heart. After all, it is only when you come across as a confident mother will your baby will learn to imbibe this as he grows up. As a new mom, it is easy to give in to doubts and contradictions coming in from family and friends. The overwhelming flow of advice and information can leave you nervous and confused. So, what is the best way to instill confidence in your choices and decisions?
#1: Draw strength from within, and others who feel this way
Motherhood can often feel solitary. It helps immensely to draw strength from inside you, from your instincts as a mother. It also helps to draw support from others who feel this way, portraying motherhood as is, without resorting to untrue stereotypes of ‘perfect mothers’. The philosophy that Baby Dove believes in, for instance, is a great way to restore your self-confidence. There is no right or wrong way of parenting at all – and certainly no perfect mothers, they say. There is only one way of parenting, and that is the one your heart tells you to follow. This supportive message for every new mother, comes in the form of a newly launched range of gentle skincare solutions that are not just mild on baby’s skin but also replenish it with moisture. With the reassurance of superior care to rely on, it becomes that much simpler to ward off apprehensions and anxieties, and embrace confidence instead.
#2: Fill your life with positive thoughts – and words
Self-confidence also has a lot to do with how you see yourself. Becoming a mother changes a lot about your body, your career and your relationships, and this may breed negative thoughts. This can take a toll on your overall wellness too, and in turn, rub off on your baby. Do you constantly labour to meet perfect standards set by society – for postpartum body, for career after motherhood, for how you should look, talk and behave? This can be utterly damaging for your self-belief. Mothers are not defined or restricted to definitions of perfection laid by the society. Tell yourself this, and believe in it.
#3: Take time out for yourself, and keep making little changes that bring you happiness
Finally, another big blow that your self-confidence may receive is from dissatisfaction. It is easy to fall into a rut, especially with baby care taking up so much time. Quitting – or not quitting – your job? Meeting – or not meeting – your friends? There are some things you cannot change but some you can! Like getting a new outfit or hairstyle, or taking a mini break. They may be only temporarily gratifying, but can be a huge boost to your self-confidence and a great way to ward off stress. Yes, stress is inevitable for a mother, but being frayed and nervy around your baby only damages the confidence she has just started learning.
It is said that a mother is a child’s first teacher, friend, caregiver and confidante. Her role begins right from conception and goes on throughout her child's life. You’ll be teaching your baby many worthwhile lessons as you grow up together. You are best-suited for this, as you have the deepest connection with your child. Let this first lesson of self-confidence set the foundation for many beautiful things to come! Read more
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Ways to Celebrate Your First Valentine's Day as Parents
Congratulations on becoming parents! We’re sure your bundle of joy is indeed giving you all the happiness in the world. Despite it all, however, there’s a chance that you and your partner have gotten too involved in your baby’s well-being and stopped spending quality time with each other, both inside and outside the bedroom. It can be tough with the baby around (and also your entire family!), but with a little extra effort, you can find some ways to spend quality time together too.
Ways to Celebrate Your First V-day as New Parents
It’s important for every couple to sometimes detatch from everyone else and be only with each other to re-connect. This is especially so, because a happy couple raises a happy baby! If you’re thinking of how you can celebrate the day of love without doing something extravagant or impossible owing to your baby, we’ve got tips for Valentine’s Day for parents with babies.
1. Don’t follow the norm.
When we think of Valentine’s Day, we think of extravagant plans and grand gestures. Well, that might work for some, but the story is entirely different for married couples with a young baby. You don’t have to go with the norm to spend some quality time with your partner – make your own rules! To celebrate V-day with your married partner post baby, you can go the easier route that is meaningful nonetheless – order in some of your partner’s favourite food, and give them a break from cooking; clean up the room while your partner takes care of the baby; make their bed for them and decorate it with a cute bouquet and card expressing your love and appreciation for them. After all, it’s all how you show your love.
2. Re-invent romance.
Think about it – even romance doesn’t stand a chance on V-day if it isn’t done ‘the right way’! The rules are different for married couples, and that is a-ok. Romance doesn’t have to mean buying huge presents and professing your undying love in public. It can be something as small as a meaningful letter describing when you fell in love with your partner, or convincing them to take an hour-long walk with you in the evening. Don’t fall for the extravagance just because it’s too hard to ignore – do what matters to your partner and you. Romance is subjective.
3. Flirt away virtually.
Praise technology for what it has done for all of us! If you and your partner can’t head out for V-day or leave the baby with someone responsible for a few hours, channel your energy into text messages – there’s no restriction to what you can tell your partner on text! Let the romance live virtually – you can always scroll up later and re-live it!
4. It’s all in the gifts.
As new parents, your idea of getting a great gift might be different from the mushy, loved-up couples out there. Try to gauge what your partner needs at this time, with the baby in the picture – instead of a huge teddy bear or a ring, get them a gift voucher to a spa or set up a surprise meeting with their friends on a weekend. Offer to take care of the baby while they take some time out to groom themselves or make themselves happy – that’s the best Valentine’s Day gift you can give your partner when you’ve just had a baby.
5. Involve the baby.
If it’s the day of love, why not involve your little munchkin to truly celebrate it? Plan a cute day out with your baby and your partner – to the zoo, a small picnic in the park, or an arcade where your baby can crawl or walk in a safe zone. Spend these precious moments with the ones who define love to you.
6. Make unapologetic plans to go out.
A lot of us live with our families, and we may have different ideas and beliefs, especially in the romance department. You may want to do something special with your partner but you’re probably finding it tough to express that to the elders of the house who don’t see V-day as something special – but hey, you’re married, you’ve recently had a baby, and you deserve some time off regardless of whether it’s a romantic day or not. Express to your family that you need to go out to feel more connected with yourself and your partner, because a baby can make you forget that sometimes. We’re sure that your family will understand, and even offer to take care of your baby while you’re out!
Love is in the air, but for new parents, so are responsibilities. Still, this V-day can be a great reason for you to get out and re-connect as a couple, so don’t let the chance go! Have fun and remind yourself of your beautiful marriage while with the one you love.
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Most women jump with joy when they find out they’re pregnant. However, the burden of expenses can soon get to them. It's important to start saving money while pregnant to avoid heavy costs later. A pregnancy fund should be the first thing you start once you confirm you're carrying.
There are small things you can do that will save you a few extra bucks when pregnant. The idea is not to splurge, but to spend wisely and save even if you have a decent amount in the bank. It never hurts to think ahead so that when you’re expecting, you don’t become broke.
How to Save Money During Pregnancy without Foregoing Much
1. Go easy on the diapers
All moms think they need to start stacking up on diapers when pregnant. Yes, diapers do help keep your little one fresh and clean. However, your baby may not require that many changes and even if he or she does, you can always use cotton nappies. They’re far cheaper and better for the environment. Keep a couple of packs of newborn diapers ready before your baby is born. You can always get more later.
2. Don’t buy too many clothes
Along with diapers, try not to go crazy buying clothes pre-delivery. You might end up getting items that are too small or too large. Besides, once your baby is born, you’ll be bombarded with kiddie clothes from well-wishers. In fact, many moms are gifted with so many that they don’t always get to use all of them. So instead of spending too much on clothes, save money for your pregnancy and after.
3. Don’t buy too many pregnancy kits
Do not spend on multiple pregnancy tests, instead three kits are more than enough to keep around. If you have a large supply, you’ll just end up with a pile of them. Once you’ve tested yourself a couple of times, you need to confirm your pregnancy with your doctor anyway to rule out false positives.
4. Get a multipurpose crib
It’s important to invest in a crib for your baby. When shopping for one, buy a crib that can also be converted into a toddler’s bed. Cribs can take up a decent amount of space and being saddled with one you don’t have any need for is a pain. You can get a crib that converts into a day bed and a twin size bed too. It’ll save you a lot of cash and a ton of space in the nursery.
5. Stop splurging
Saving money while pregnant means learning not to splurge on yourself too much. You may have pregnancy cravings that you simply must satisfy and it’s okay to do so. Just try to avoid eating out as it could deplete your finances in no time. It isn’t healthy too. Instead of too-oily foods, you can get nuts and fruits. Instead of expensive pastries, you can make yourself smoothies and try fruit cocktails.
These money-saving tips should help you build your finances during your pregnancy. Even if you can’t make massive changes in your spending habits, you can start small and slowly work your way up. Try not to obsess over money, but enjoy the experience of being pregnant. You’ll feel less stressed and be a lot healthier. Read more
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What Is it Like to Be a First-time Mom?
If you have recently embraced motherhood, I want to congratulate you! Congratulations on being a mother and stepping into the next phase of your life. Being a mom for the first time is not easy. You will feel awesome and awful at the same time. Almost all moms have similar feelings when they become a mother for the first time. Here are my experiences of being a first-time mom and what I felt almost daily while taking care of my little one.
1. The Feeling of Fear
After the first few weeks of my baby's birth, I was on a rollercoaster ride. I had a weird feeling and I cried to my husband over the phone. My fear was that someday my daughter would get married and go away from me. I know that sounds stupid and funny now but believe me, I felt that (I think that was because of the postpartum phase!). So if any mother in her postpartum phase tells you something that sounds insane to you, don't show that to her, just nod your head and console her.
2. The Constant Urge to Cry
Yes, when I heard about many moms cry in their postpartum phase, I felt it was because of the happy phase they have entered into and even I wanted to prepare myself for the same. But after my baby's birth, in the second and the third week, I cried over spilt milk. Sometimes, I even cried after arguing with my husband. I am sure most new moms feel like crying. It is usually because of sleepless nights and tiredness.
3. Feeling Sad for Not Getting Enough 'Me Time'
Our whole life goes in pampering ourselves. We indulge in junk food, spend on things and products to groom ourselves, hang out with friends, etc. This goes on for a while. All these years, we are used to living for ourselves but suddenly it changes and the me-time becomes a luxury. There will be no little time is left for us especially for a few days (and months) after having a baby. A woman's life changes after becoming a mother and becomes hectic. This is a common feeling every mom experiences these things at some point.
4. The Feeling of Being Awesome
After birth, our body undergoes changes that can be felt physically and mentally. But when we look at our mini little creatures whom we have carried in our womb for months, makes us feel proud. Yes, you will feel awesome and proud of yourself.
This is what I felt after becoming a mother for the first time. I am sure you must have felt similar. Being a mother is challenging but we all learn with time and only get better at it!
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The Babyhug Safe Journey Forward-facing Car Seat- Black review
A child’s safety is a parents most utmost concern be it in the house, play ground or even a car.
An infant car seat is designed to protect our little ones from any major injuries during road accidents that is why we need to pick the best of the lot to ensure maximum safety. For my child safe journey, I chose the babyhug safety journey forward facing car seat.
It’s easy on the pocket and is ECE R44/04 certified, That means it abides by the car seat law which provides weight appropriate seating comfort- safety for the child. This car seat has got age and weight appropriate seat adjustments that helps us parents to gain maximum safety for the child.
This babyhug car seat is forward facing which is good for older kids just like my kid when I bought this product. It is appropriate for children up to the age of 12 years or for children weighing up to 36 kgs.
This great feature of the babyhug forward facing car seat is one of the major reasons I bought this product as we all know how fast our kids grow up. It is easy to install and easy to fit the safety belts around the child it’s safety lock is easy to fix and is child proof. So I can go on long journeys without the fear of my child being able to fall out or open the seat belt and disturb the drive.
My child loves to munch on munchies while on a road trip. Thanks to babyhug car seat washable covers, stained seat covers are one less thing to worry about.
This Babyhug car seat has five point safety harness to secure the child firmly still allowing him or her to do movements within its range. It has adjustable headrest that reduces strain on the neck.
All great features in one product. Thank you baby hug for such a thoughtful product
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Q. #asktheexpert
baby having nose block.. sleeping problem
what should I do?
Dr Sameer awadhiya
Paediatrician
2 hours ago
A. nasal blockage can be relieved by using nasal saline drops like nasoclear saline drops in thecg nose followed by nasal aspirator to take out the secretions very ghently
steam inhalation can also be helpful in this condition
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Q. At what month does the baby go from breech position to cephalic position?
Nikitha
Mom of a 9 yr 5 m old boy
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A. hello nearing your delivery it will happen.any concern then it would be better to check with your doctor and she will be able to guide you better on examination of the same and advise you accordingly which would be better and also safe
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Q. @ the time of birth baby weight 2.475kg but after completed 6weeks baby weight approx 3kg, why baby weight gain very slow, till breast-feeding milk and urinate 6-7 times and potty 2-3 times. can u please suggest why slow in progress in weight gain???
Read moreDr Vandan H Kumar
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A. the average birth weight of neonates is about 3 kg.
during the first few days after birth, the newborn loses
extracellular fluid equivalent to about 10% of the body
weight.
most infants regain their birth weight by the age of 10 days. subsequently, they gain weight at a rate of
approximately 25 to 30 g per day for the first 3 months of life.
thereafter they gain about 400 g weight every month,
for the remaining part of the first year. x
an infant usually doubles his birth weight (taken as 3 kg) by the age of 5 months. the birth weight triples at 1 year and is four times at 2 years of age.
the weight of ca child at the age of three years is usually
five times that of the birth weight.
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A. it's very common for babies having gas problem ...you should recommend your doctor for this
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what to give 6 months old baby to eat
Sai Prasanthi R L
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A. Hello dear! Once your baby completes 6 months you can start giving small quantities of semi solids like homemade cerelac, mashed bananas, apple puree, ragi and so on. Continue with breastfeeding. Keep Babyhug tummy roll on handy
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Q. now I am in 30 weeks of pregnancy I have vomiting.I couldn't control what the reasons for this vomiting
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A. Some women may have vomiting throughout their pregnancy. The most common reason for vomiting during the third trimester may be gastritis. Make sure you eat small frequent meals, preferably every 2 hours. If your baby's weight during checkups are adequate..u needn't worry much about this. You can also consult your doctor and take anti emetics and PPIs if the vomiting is bothering you or interfering with your daily activities.
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