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When Can Babies Start Wearing Shoes?
As parents, you may be too eager to adorn your little one’s feet with a smart and trendy pair of shoes. But you're also going to be super curious about what age your baby can start wearing shoes and what kind of shoes your baby can wear. Well, look no further - your questions are answered here.
When to Buy Baby's First Shoes?
So, when do babies need shoes or when can you put shoes on a baby? If that is the question that may be popping in your head, then we suggest that you wait at least until the time your baby is ready to walk outdoors. When your baby is learning to walk, you must let him go barefoot. This is because going barefoot can help your baby gather coordination and balance his steps better.
Should Pre-Walkers Wear Shoes?
If you are wondering whether babies should wear shoes while learning how to walk, the answer is that it's not highly recommended for young babies. You may make them wear shoes to protect their feet from injury, but it may be better to let your baby roam about barefoot. So, what baby shoes are best when learning to walk? Well, it will be a good idea to make your baby wear soft-sole shoes, which may provide flexibility, comfort, and breathability to your baby’s feet.
Can Wearing Shoes Develop Strong Ankles in Babies?
There is no proof that states that wearing shoes may help your baby develop stronger ankles; in fact, their ankles are quite strong and sturdy and don't really need support. However, shoes are great for providing protection to your baby’s feet from any kind of injury or from cold floors in the winter months. This doesn't mean you strap on his shoes as soon as he starts walking around the house though; you wouldn't make him wear mittens while he crawls around the house all the time, now would you! A young baby needs to feel the surface beneath him when he begins walking.
Popular Shoe Styles for Baby Girl and Baby Boy
There are separate varieties of baby shoes available for girls and boys. Following are some of the styles that you may choose from:
Shoe Styles for Baby Boys-
Here are some shoe styles for your little rock star that you may choose from:
Moccasins
Boots (ideal for cold weathers)
Walking sneakers (available with Velcro, laces or snaps options)
Slip-on shoes (for pre-walkers)
Shoe Styles for Baby Girls-
Here are some shoe styles that you may choose from for your little princess:
Slip-on shoes (for pre-walkers)
Booties or boots
Mary Janes
Moccasins
Walking sneakers (available with Velcro, laces or snaps options)
Sandals with ankle straps
Baby Shoe Sizes by Age
Every child grows differently, and, thus, may have a different shoe size. Here we have some generic shoe sizes for babies of a certain age group:
Your 0 to 3-months-old baby may need size 1 shoe.
Your 3 to 6-months-old baby may require size 2 shoe.
At 6 to 9 months of age, your baby may need size 2.5 or 3 shoes.
Your 9 to 12-months-old toddler may require size 3.5 or 4 shoes.
Your 12 to an 18 month kid may need size 4.5 or 5 shoes.
At 18 to 24 months of age, your kid may require size 5.5 or 6 shoes.
Tips for Buying Shoes for Babies
Tips that you may consider while buying shoes for your little munchkin:
Do not make your baby wear shoes as soon as he begins walking as this may hamper with this balance and coordination. He needs to feel everything under his feet to be able to balance better.
Look for the signs that may tell you that your baby is ready to walk (this may happen somewhere from 7 to 18 months of age). As soon as you register that your baby is moving unaided, you may make the transition from pre-walking shoes to walking shoes.
It is important that you choose the right type of shoe that provides ample support to your baby’s feet. Get anti-slip, flexible sole, and lightweight shoes for your baby.
You should buy shoes that may allow your baby’s feet to breathe; therefore, synthetic materials should be avoided. You should opt for good quality mesh or leather shoes for your baby.
You should pay heed to the fit of the shoe too. It should neither be too tight or loose and should fit perfectly.
Babies grow very quickly, and, thus, they may need to change shoes too. Therefore, you should be able to establish when your baby may need to move up a size.
Choose the shoe fasteners properly for your baby. There are straps, Velcro and laces to choose from.
Lastly, your baby’s comfort holds more priority than his appearance, so pick up a shoe for its comfort and not its looks.
You may opt for hard-soled shoes when your baby is comfortable walking without any support and when you plan to take your baby outdoors for a walk.
Warning Signs to Look Out for
Babies are delicate and so are their feet. Though you may make them wear shoes when they may start walking, look out for following warning signs, which may indicate some problem:
If your baby’s feet appear inwards or outwards.
If your baby shows the sign of deformed toes, where one toe may curl under another toe.
If your baby’s nails may show any kind of discolouration or inflammation.
If your baby may have any kind of lumps, redness, soreness on the toes, ankles or any other part of the foot.
If you have any concerns or queries regarding picking up the right kind of shoes for your baby, you may seek your doctor’s help for the same.
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6 Smart Ideas To Keep Your Kids Busy
Keeping kids entertained is a tricky task indeed. Come holidays, it becomes even more daunting. No matter what age, no matter what stage, we all need to look for some activities to keep kids occupied. So, here are some smart ideas for a smart mommy. Check them out!
Fun Play Ideas for Quiet Days
1. Match The Pair
Chances are your toddler is extremely fond of her clothes. Then why not let her spend some time with her little pants or skirts? Simply dump all your child’s clothes on bed and ask her to make pairs. And you will be surprised to see how it can keep him busy for hours – the mess will be worth it!
2. Do It Yourself Shelf
Does your bookshelf look disorganised? If the answer is yes, here’s another way to keep your little one busy. Keep your kiddo engaged by making him arrange the books by size, colour and theme. He may end up flipping through the book leaving you with some quality Me-time.
3. Set up a Skype call
What can be more fascinating for a toddler than talking to someone over a video call? Set up a live video call with your toddler’s grandparents (perfect for the in-laws too!)and watch him have fun over chat. The grandparents are thrilled, your little one stays engaged, and you get breathing room – win win!
4. Arranging Picture Cut-outs
Kids are naturally attracted to colourful pictures, isn’t it? Take out some of his favourite cartoon character pictures and cut them into pieces. Now let your toddler identify the correct shapes and put them together to form the picture.
5. Magic Pictures
How about showing some magic to your child as he gets down to painting? Stick masking tape on a piece of paper such that it appears to be an outline of a house. Allow your child to colour the entire page with his favourite colour. Allow it to dry. Now, carefully remove the tape to show the picture beneath. It’s magic!
6. Dress-up Activity
Allow your child access to some of your old clothes. Old scarves, hats, shirts, tops, shoes, and everything you don’t use (clean out your cupboard while you’re at it). Ask him/her to dress up in 5 different ways using these clothes. Believe it or not, you too would love to see your child in different outfits. Don’t forget to click pictures!
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मेरी राय से तो इस वक़्त नई माँ को डॉक्टर के निर्देशों के अनुसार ही चलना चाहिए नाकि दादी नानी के नुस्खों पर।गर्भावस्था में कुछ लक्षण ऐसे होते हैं जो 100 में से 1 को ही होते हैं। वैसी ही एक परेशानी मुझे हुई थी।छठे महीने में मेरे पेट पर छोटे छोटे लाल दाने हो गए थे पहले तो मैंने ज्यादा ध्यान नहीं दिया पर जब उनमें खुजली आने लगी तो मैंने अपनी डॉक्टर को दिखाया उसने फौरन मुझे स्किन स्पेशलिस्ट के पास भेज दिया।स्किन स्पेशलिस्ट ने मुझे देखते ही कहा कि यह परेशानी गर्भावस्था में 100 में से 1 को होती है अगर ध्यान न दिया जाए तो यह माँ और बच्चे दोनों के लिए जानलेवा हो सकती है। मैंने तुरन्त डॉक्टर से पूछा मेरा बच्चा ठीक है न।डॉक्टर ने कहा सही वक्त पर इलाज होने से सब अच्छा ही होगा।15 दिन की दवाई दी। वह 15 दिन मेरे लिए नर्क के समान थे आज भी वह दिन याद करके दुबारा माँ बनने से डर लगता है।मेरे पुरे शरीर में जलन होने लगी थी तलवों में खुजली, पुरे समय पैर बर्फ के पानी में रखने पर भी आराम नहीं मिलता था। उसपर से लोगों का ये कहना कि हमने तो आजतक ऐसा नहीं देखा तेरे साथ ही अनोखा हुआ ऐसा। पर मैंने भी लोगों की बात पर ध्यान न देकर सिर्फ डॉक्टर की सलाह मानी और 15 दिनो में सब ठीक हो गया।उन दिनों में मेरे पति का बहुत साथ था मुझे। फिर जब 9 महीने पुरे हुए तो मेरे पेट में कभी हल्का कभी तेज दर्द होने लगा। सास को बताने पर उन्होंने कहा कि अभी उतना दर्द नहीं कि डॉक्टर के पास जाना पड़े। 2 दिन बाद जब मेरी हालत खराब होने लगी और पसीने छूटने लगे तब डॉक्टर के पास गए।डॉक्टर ने देखते ही कहा बीपी लो हो गया है सर्जरी करनी पड़ेगी, आपलोग पहले तो वक्त पर आते नहीं फिर डॉक्टर को दोष देते हो सर्जरी होने पर। मैं मन ही मन भगवान से बच्चे की सलामती की दुआएं मांग रही थी। जब मेरा बच्चा मेरी गोद में आया तो मैं उस वक़्त उन 9 महीनों की सारी तकलीफें भूल गई।तो मेरी यही सलाह है कि अगर आपको गर्भावस्था में दर्द हो, पसीना आए दाने या खुजली हो तो फौरन डॉक्टर को बताएं और उनकी सलाह के अनुसार ही अपना ध्यान रखें।लोगों की बातों में न आएं।उनके अनुभव आपके अनुभव से अलग हो सख्त हैं।अपना और अपने आनेवाले बच्चे का ख्याल रखें।पति के साथ ज्यादा से ज्यादा वक्त बिताएं।
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Positive Discipline : How to Discipline a Child in a Way That Actually Works
Let’s play a quick word association game.
I will say one word, and you will say the first thing that comes to your mind when you read that word. Don’t think for long. Just say the first word that occurs to you. OK, here we go.
Sky.
Night.
Discipline.
Chances are, when you read “sky” the first word that came to your mind was “blue” or “high”.
When you read “night” you might think of the words “dark” or “day”.
What about “discipline”? What did you think of when you read that? In my case, I would probably have gone with “punishment” or “set right”.
The idea of discipline being synonymous with punishment is ingrained in our psyche. The first thing we think of when we hear the word “discipline” is usually something negative.
However, did you know that the word discipline originates from the Latin word ‘disciplina’ which means teaching, which in turn comes from ‘discipulus’ which literally translates to pupil?
Yet, I can bet that very few who tried the little exercise above would have thought “teach” when they first read the word “discipline”.
For whatever reason, over the years, discipline has gone from meaning “to teach” to “to punish”!
Today we explore “positive discipline” an idea that focuses on reverting things back to the roots – when children do something wrong, instead of punishing them, parents teach and guide them to set the behavior right.
So, how do we go back from “to punish” to “to teach”? In small baby steps, of course!
Here are a few tips to get started, and by following some of these (pick a subset of the ones that work for you), slowly we can change our perspective about “discipline”
1. The core of positive discipline: There are no bad kids, just bad behavior.
Think about that for a minute and you will realize how true the statement is. This is the basic premise of the positive discipline concept. Once we as parents recognize that inherently our kids are not bad, they are just behaving badly, the rest of it will slowly fall in place.
For instance, suppose your child hits another child. The first thing you feel is probably embarrassment and shame, followed closely by a fear that your child may have a “mean” streak. If you go with that feeling and call your child a “bad girl” or “naughty boy” you reinforce the negative image of your child both in your own mind and in your child’s.
Your child may just be hungry/sleepy/tired or any of the hundred different stress triggers that may have made her act out. In other words, something in your child’s environment is influencing your child to behave badly. When we accept that it was just a behavior that was bad, and the child herself is fine. For instance, instead of screaming, “Why did you do that? I don’t understand how you can be so mean sometimes” you will be in a much better situation to say “That wasn’t the best behavior – we do not hit our friends”.
At this point, I have to admit, I have a pretty strong-willed child and this will likely just get a “back answer” from her (or the water works, if she is already feeling guilty about it), but in her mind (and my own), I have planted the seed that she is not bad, it was just bad behavior, and it becomes easy for both of us to deal with it positively using one of the other techniques below.
2. Instead of pointing out what the child did wrong, show the child how to set things right
Building on the example above, let’s consider the best case situation first where you catch your child before she actually hits. However, instead of saying “Don’t hit” or “NO hitting” try saying “Use your words” or “Ask nicely”. When you say “Don’t hit” it does not give the child any information of what she should be doing instead. Without that knowledge, she may just end up going with her original plan to hit or she may choose to go with some other option which is equally bad – like shoving the other kid.
Now, on the other hand, if you catch the child after the incident, convey that what she did was wrong and give her an “out”. For example, you could say “That was not a good choice, we don’t hit our friends. Do you want to say sorry and make Kaylee feel better?” and if your child is not ready to say sorry yet (mine usually needs some time), you can continue with “Until we are ready to say sorry, let’s sit here and read a book” (This is sometimes also referred to as).
3. Be kind but firm; show empathy and respect
Now, in her mind, what she did was right and justified. It can be very frustrating when she insists on some wrong behavior as being right (mine is 5, and she can justify her actions until blue in her face with “She started it, she didn’t share the toy”). As parents, instead of arguing back, we just need to stay calm and repeat what we said in a kind manner but very firmly. For instance, repeat “Hitting hurts, we do not hit our friends” and “Yes, sharing is good, but we do not hit someone even if they don’t share” and different variants of it, over and over without losing temper or raising voice.
It also helps to show some empathy – for instance, “You really want the doll that she is playing with, but hitting is not the right choice.” Just by empathizing with your child that she really wants the doll, you can win half the battle.
4. Whenever possible, offer choices
After offering empathy, you can take it to the next level by offering her some choices. Choices give your child a sense of control. Not only is she not “bad”, instead of being “punished” she is given control… sometimes, that’s more than enough to snap a child out of a funk. This is one of the most common recommended by experts.
Simple choices like, “That was not nice, do you want to make Kaylee feel better by giving her a hug or by saying you are sorry?” or “Do you want to say sorry and continue playing with Kaylee or do you want to read a book with me until you calm down?” go a long way.
Remember to pick your choices carefully though, because once a choice is offered, and your child picks one, you need to honor it.
5. Treat mistakes as opportunities to learn
A child will often act out because she perceives it as the means to get to an end. When teach them not only that what they did is wrong but also empower them with alternatives, it will help them in the future from using it as a tool even when you are not around.
Try not to launch into a lecture though. If possible use examples and recollections from past behavior. “Do you remember last time when Tim hit you and how much it hurt? It made you mad/sad, right?” or “Remember when you fell off the chair and bumped your head? When you hit someone, it hurts the same way.” Read more
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How does a mommy manage twins alone.Is it okay not to have any help?
Oh,how are you managing twins when it is a roller coaster ride for me taking care one my little ONE.
You have bumper offer,it is exciting right ?
How do you feed both at once,do they sleep at same time?
Like any other mom of twins,I went through all these questions and many more.
First three months ...
Life was never tough than this stage.Bejng a new mum and blessed with two,happiness must overpower every bit of toughness but believe me it surely is difficult with feeding two,getting their sleep routine set,understand their gas,hunger,sleep problems etc.Thank god first few months babies are mom fed with her milk,this alone gives so much positivity about babies health to mom.
If you are not breastfeeding,DONOT be guilty of giving formula milk.IT IS OK.
Believe me,for all the tough times ,for all sleepless times and all the dietary you couldn't give now,you will surely compensate it later.
Four to Eight months...
You actually wait for this stage because many say babies will understand sleep routine after three months.It didn't happen with me.I had to make both of them sleep thrice a day plus night which is 8 times and soothing them,music,milk nothing made them sleep themselves,I HAD TO make them sleep somehow.And of course feed both one after the other every two hours.Then people said,every difficulty you are undergoing now will disappear once they turn one year .
Then my babies starting communicating,aaaa-uuuu-hehehe etc and started smiling ,this is when I started enjoying all my tough time.
This stage ,a big relief to mums but never knew that's one more challenging task,INTRODUCING SOLID FOOD.I thought it's a relief when I stop running ,carrying one after the other kid for breastfeed if I introduce solid food(solids stay for longer time in their small tummy than milk obviously,mum have some buffer time with this ).
Here,started all kinds of sounds from my house ,my dad turns on the musical toys,entertains them while I feed each baby,what is challenging is not making them eat but to make them stay still so mum can feed.Arghh!! Ooph !!
8 months to 15 months ...
Oh wow,however difficult it is,you definitely enjoy those moments when your babies with their tiny little feet tries to walk.Mum is a great singer at this stage,and you surely be a big fan of rhymes than your child because you start enjoying them more.See your baby clapping her hands while you sing and not to forget, how proud daddy is when he tells about all the things his baby does to his friends and family(mum,be proud ,u taught your baby all of that ).
There are milestones,there is difficulty with two .With time definitely everything will be okay because ,Oh,mom,it is you afterall and babies know that one thing.Mommy will surely figure out a way.
Every kid is different and experience with every kid to a mom is different,so is the effort you put in and the happiness they bring is all different. Read more
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Hi everyone! Today I'm going to tell about the pros and cons of breastfeeding.
Breastfeeding is very important for a newborn baby and it should be the only food till 6 months, it is advised to breastfeed baby till she attains at least the age of 1 year.
Breastfeeding helps to develop an emotional bonding between child and mother, and the child feels secure.
Breastfeeding helps mother in many ways, it helps to recover from childbirth quickly, breastfeeding mothers have reduced rate of developing breast or ovarian cancer, it prevents the development of heart disease and type 2 diabetes.
Breastfeeding makes children immune to infection, reduces rist of obesity in childhood or at a later stage, helps in jaw development, and also brain, eyes and other body systems, it satisfies baby's thirst.
General Tips for Breastfeeding
While breastfeeding, support baby's neck and shoulders with your hand, dont hold his head let him find the best position for attaching to your breast.
Bring your baby to your beast, not breast to your baby.
Gently brush your baby's mouth with the underside of your areola, this will make your baby open his mouth widely.
Garlic, spinach, fenugreek seeds help to increase breast milk
Please avoid processed food or artificial milk powder during first 6 months.
One should breastfeed baby 8 to 12 times in a span of 24 hrs.
Breast milk has got all the nutients which help baby to develop resistance to infection as baby's immune system is still under development stage. Its good to feed the baby every 2 hrs or as and when your baby needs.
One more imp thing is, as the baby's teeth start erupting, dont breastfeed baby whole night as it will lead to develop nursing bottle caries of milk teeth, so please avoid such habit.
Once all milk teeth erupt, soon after breast feeding, clean baby's teeth with a finger brush or soft cotton cloth. This will help to prevent the development of nursing bottle caries
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13 mins ago
Q. whenever I put my 2 months old baby girl in her bed after making her sleep ,she gets up immediately.....she sleep only when we tightly hug her or take her in lap.
Dr Sameer awadhiya
Paediatrician
13 mins ago
A. For the query asked needs consultation with doctor for proper guidance so it ihjs better that the doctor will guide you the correct way .
Online consultation can also be taken and the expert will give you the proper answer .
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Q. #asktheexpert
I have completed my 12 weeks of pregnancy. what should I eat?
POOJA KOTHARI
Mom of a 7 yr 1 m old boy
11 mins ago
A. Choose whole grains over refined grains, such as brown rice over white rice. Include a variety of protein sources, such as lean meats, fish, poultry, eggs, beans, and lentils. Choose low-fat or non-fat dairy products to meet your calcium needs.
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Q. #asktheexpert my 3 month baby cudn’t sleep in Ac what can we do.Ac temp above 27 they start sneezing n coughing
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A. ok. if there is no relief it is better you see your doctor for proper examination particularly physical examination if there is need for doing investigations to find out the problem and treatment ok
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Q. i am 5 month pregnant can i start doing exercise at home
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A. You can stay active right up to the birth as long as you feel well and comfortable. Keep doing low-impact activities, such as walking, swimming and dancing. You can do gentle stretches to reduce aches and pains. Avoid lying on your back – try lying on your side or choose a supported upright position instead.
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Q. meri 6months baby fart k sth watery potty kr rhi hai breast milk piti hai plz koi solution btayein
Dr Sameer awadhiya
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A. Loose motion are most of the time infective where it is associated with fever and vomiting and its known as gastroenteritis where symptomatic treatment along with management for dehydration is required if loose motions are associated with foul smell mucous high grade fever thhiian it could be bacterial infection which needs antibiotics treatment
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