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The Reason Tusshar Kapoor Decided To Become a Single Father Is The Sweetest Thing Ever!
Bringing a child into the world is a joy like no other, and a moment of eternal bliss for a couple. There is a subtle way a child transforms your life, changes you in ways you never thought possible, and even brings you closer to your partner. But sometimes, the longing for a child’s love in your life overpowers everything else – even the fact that you’ll be bringing him up alone. Something very much like this just happened with Tusshar Kapoor.
There is a new love in Tusshar Kapoor’s life – and he is cute, tiny and adorable! The unmarried actor just became a proud father to a baby boy through surrogacy using IVF. The little boy, whom he has named Laksshya, is the first grandchild in the household and needless to say, Grandpa Jeetendra, Grandma Shobha and Buaa Ektaa have been going berserk with happiness!
But why, we did wonder briefly, did Tusshar opt to become a single Dad? How does he plan to look after the baby, which is a mammoth task even for couples? The reason, which Tusshar explained at length, and his plans for the baby’s future, are both immensely heartwarming.
"I will be turning 40 in a few months. The paternal instincts in me have been overpowering my heart and mind for some time now. I feel that I am in the right stage of my life to be a single parent. Therefore, I am thrilled beyond words to have Laksshya, now the greatest source of joy in my life. I am thrilled to be a father!
My son looks exactly like me. So, it makes me very, very happy and I don't have words to express how excited or how joyous I am. I am the caretaker, me and my parents and Ekta. I have been learning for the last nine months. By the greatness of God and the excellent medical team (at Jaslok), parenthood is an option for many, who choose to be single parents.”
Source: http://indianexpress.com/
Thanks to advancing research in the field of assisted reproduction, becoming parents has now become a possibility for many couples who had previously given up hope. Many single men and women too are now open to single parenting. Challenging though it certainly is, the delight of bringing up a child makes you stronger and ready to face hurdles along the way! Before Tusshar, Bollywood Dads like Aamir Khan and Shah Rukh Khan have also gone the surrogacy route, thus easing some of the fear and stigma that is still associated with the process. Read more
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Birthday Wish ...
प्रत्येकाची असते.. तुमची Birthday Wish काय आहे ह्या वर्षी ?
********* Birthday Wish ********
Birthday, वाढदिवस.... काय असतो नक्की ???
आनंदाचा दिवस, आपल्या लोकांसोबत आनंदाने घालवण्याचा दिवस.....
आपण मोठं झालोय पण ते कळू नये , (अर्थात काही क्षणांकरता...) त्याचं वाईट वाटू नये म्हणून आपली माणसं ह्या दिवशी आपल्याला भेटतात, आपल्याला गिफ्ट देतात, म्युझिक, डान्स, केक, सेल्फी, फेसबुक च्या शुभेच्छा, इंस्टाग्राम च्या पोस्ट... ह्यांनी दिवस कसा आणि कुठे जातो कळत च नाही ना ????
आणि ..... आणि ह्या गडबडीत ह्या सगळ्या पसाऱ्यातून एक कुणी आपली व्यक्ती हळूच मनाचा ताबा घेते,ती त्या व्यक्तीच्या एका प्रश्नाने....
ओळखता येईल का काय तो प्रश्न ?....
*"तुझी birthday wish काय आहे ??? "*....
आज असाच प्रश्न मलाही विचारला....माझ्या जवळच्या व्यक्तीने....
तुम्हाला सांगू का, ह्यापूर्वी ना उत्तर लगेच तोंडात येईल असं असायचं....
आजकाल तसं होत नाही...
का ?? त्याचं कारण मी पण शोधतीये....
कसं असतं बघा ना, आपण लहान असतो तेव्हा वयाच्या 2 वर्षापर्यंत आपल्याला आपला वाढदिवस म्हणजे काय ते ठाऊक पण नसतं. मग तिसऱ्या वर्षीपासून हळू हळू कळतं. त्यावेळी आपले आई वडील जमेल तसं छान पद्धतीने आपला वाढदिवस साजरा करतात. अगदी आपण म्हणू तसा. दहावी बारावी ला जाई पर्यंत अगदी एखादी बाहुली किंवा रिमोट कंट्रोलच्या कारपासून ते मोबाईल पर्यंत दिलेलं सगळं आपल्याला अपार आनंद देऊन जातं..... आणि मग सुरू होतो पुढचा प्रवास....
म्हणायला गेलं तर खूप काही शिकवून जाणारं आणि म्हणायला गेलं तर खूप काही घेऊन जाणारं आयुष्य.....
अशाच एका जागी मलाही आज तोच प्रश्न खातोय... माझी birthday wish काय आहे...
मी खूप छोट्या छोट्या गोष्टीत आनंद मानणारी मुलगी होते... असं नाही की आज छोट्या गोष्टी मला आनंद देत नाहीत पण कुठेतरी मी ती उरली नाही असं वाटायला लागलं आहे ....
असं का होतं आपल्यासोबत हेच शोधत होते .. अन सापडलं ते कटू सत्य आहे पण शेवटी सत्य आहे...
लग्नाच्या अगोदर आपण आपल्या सेफ झोन मध्ये असतो... आपली माणसं , ओळखीची माणसं... ज्यांना आपण आणि ती आपल्याला पुरे ओळखून असतात....त्यामुळे तिथे शक्यतो आपण त्यांना आणि त्यांनी आपल्याला आनंदी ठेवणं बऱ्यापैकी सोपं असतं.त्यानंतर आपलं लग्न होतं. मग मुलगी सासरी जाते...तिकडे ती आपल्या सासरच्या लोकांना खुश ठेवण्याचे आटोकाट प्रयत्न करते....पण तुला हेच येत नाही, तुला हे कुणी शिकवलं नाही का, तू असं कसं वागू शकते, तुला आता इकडच्या लोकांचापण विचार करावा लागेल ना, तू ना हे असं करत जा, हे असं नको तसचं कर...अशा बऱ्याच गोष्टींच्या दाडपणाने ती बिचारी थकून प्रयत्न करणं सोडून देते....मग हाती येते ती निराशा... कितीपण करा कमीच पडतं...असं म्हणायला लागते ती...
मग ह्यातच जन्माला येतं ते तिचा बाळ...पहिलीच वेळ असते, साधं बाळ धरता येत नसतं तरीपण ती एकटी बाळ, बाळाचे सगळे काही, नवऱ्याचे करून बाळाचे सगळे काही बघते. बाळ हळू हळू मोठं होऊ लागतं आणि ती त्याचे जमेल तसे लाड आणि हट्ट पुरवू लागते.....
एक दिवस अचानक लक्षात येतं, की अरे, लग्न, संसार, बाळ, बाळाचे लाड, नवऱ्याच्या अपेक्षा, सासारच्यांच्या अपेक्षा, त्यांची मन सांभाळणे, सगळ्यांचा मानपान ठेवल्या ठिकाणी ठेवणे, घर आणि नोकरी ह्यात अंतर ठेवून घर सांभाळणे, ह्या सगळ्यात माहेरची माणसं जपणे, सासर आणि माहेर ह्यात एक दुवा बनून काम करणे, नवऱ्याची आवड निवड, सासरच्यांचे वाढदिवस, लग्नाचे वाढदिवस, त्यांच्या आवडी निवडी ह्या सगळ्यात ती तिला हरवून बसते.
आणि मग तिचं मन हळू हळू निराशेकडे झुकू लागतं. आनंद काहीसा कमी होत जातो. आवड हे काम वाटू लागतं.
ह्या सगळ्या पसाऱ्यात ती स्वतःला काय आवडतं, काय हवं आहे नको आहे ते विचारायचं विसरते. मग त्या छोट्या छोट्या गोष्टी पण मनाला बोचू लागतात. अशावेळी हवा असतो तो फक्त मनमुराद आनंद...ह्या गराड्यात अडकलेला, नाही , हरवलेला आनंद...जो ती शोधत असते....
जगण्यातला , छोट्या छोट्या गोष्टीत मिळणारा आनंद . सोडा ना सगळे हेवे दावे, सोडा ती परफेक्शनिस्ट ची जागा, सोडा ते उगा मनधरणी करणं, सोडा कुणाचं बोलणं मनावर घेणं, सोडा कुणावर रागे भरणं, सोडा ते नको त्या भयंकर अपेक्षा ठेवणं....
त्याबदल्यात द्या त्या व्यक्तीला तिचा वेळ, जगू द्या त्यांना त्यांच्या पद्धतीने, त्यांच्या विचारांचा आदर करा, कौतुक करा त्याचं, चुकेल तिथे रागवा पण, पण उगा ताणू नका की जेणेकरून कायमचे मन दुखावले जाईल...द्या आनंद दुसऱ्यांना... जगू द्या आणि जगण्याचा आनंद तुम्हीपण लुटा ...
मुलगा असो वा मुलगी, सगळ्यांच्या आयुष्यात हे घडत असतं, फक्त आज मी ते एका मुलीच्या बाजूने मांडलं आहे फरक फक्त एवढाच.
आजच्या दिवशी मलापण जर कुणी विचारलं तर मलापण असाच मनमुराद आनंद हवा आहे...
कुठल्याही अटी नसणारा आनंद...
वाद कुठे होत नाही, पण वादानंतर मनवण्यातला आनंद घ्या,
रडल्यावर अश्रू पुसण्याचा आनंद घ्या,
खाल्ल्यावर जेवणाची स्तुती करण्याचा आनंद घ्या,
भेट दिल्यावर चेहऱ्यावर हसू आणून आनंद घ्या,
आठवण येत असेल तर भेटून आनंद घ्या,
वाटा आनंद सगळीकडे आणि द्विगुणित ही करा हो...बघा आयुष्य किती सहज, सरळ आणि सोपे होते ते ..
बघा असपण आयुष्य जगून एकदा....
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Baby Care Post Vaccination
It is observed that after vaccination, a fever of 99 to 101 Fahrenheit is recorded in some babies as their body produces antibodies after getting vaccinated, so it is evident that fever will occur. But if the fever doesn't go away after two days or if the temperature crosses 102 Fahrenheit, then we have to think about going to Doctor as the baby doesn't feel comfortable with a high fever. They stop taking food and will cry continuously after taking the vaccine, consult a doctor for medication if a high fever occurs, and maintain the baby's body temperature. Monitoring your baby constantly after vaccination for 3-4 days is compulsory.
Try to use loose clothes for babies during fever and continuously check whether their temperature is reducing or not as after giving medication, the fever should reduce after 20 mins. Use clean and hygienic clothes for the baby; always stay with the baby as it needs you. At the time of high fever, your baby will feel very uncomfortable. You should be with your baby always and observe any changes in the baby's behavior. Generally, doctors will prescribe Paracetamol Drops for babies. These drops will reduce the fever in 15- 20 minutes after feeding them, and slight pain will be there when the vaccine is injected. Sometimes you will see swelling and redness in the area of the vaccination, which is typical. Apply some cold water-absorbed cloth on that specific area, and that will reduce pain. Some people use lukewarm water, which will also reduce pain, but it is expected that pain will occur and it will vanish in one or two days. If the pain or swelling persists even after two days, please consult your doctor and get proper medication. Changes in a baby post getting a vaccination is typical, so don't get worked up; stay calm and let your baby's immunity do its job! Happy parenting...
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Helping Children Cope with Divorce
When parents decide to opt for divorce, it is the most confusing and the saddest event for a child. The child goes through a constant fear of having to live with a single parent and also cope the stress of unpleasantness between two of the most important people of his life.
Parents are often at a loss of how to explain everything to the child while also conveying that their love for him hasn’t waned off. Presenting a united front, avoiding arguments in front of him and helping him express his feelings go a long way in easing out the process. Read on to find out how, when and what to tell your child.
When to Tell Children About Divorce?
It is good to tell the children about the divorce as soon as the decision is taken. They should definitely be made aware before any major changes takeover, like a parent moving out or a change of city or school for them. Being prepared will decrease the resentment they feel about the changes and in turn the divorce.
How to Tell Children About Divorce?
It is important that parents put up a united front while telling the children. The more the children see it as a joint decision, the easier it is for them to accept it. Have a talk with your spouse. Decide what you have to say. Avoid disagreements, blaming each other or any other arguments while talking to the kids. When you approach your child, be clear, direct and simple. Be as honest as possible.
Do Tell Them Why?
It is important for the children to know why you decided to move away from each other. What you tell them will, of course, depend on their age and levels of understanding, but a concrete reason helps them come to terms with the situation. If you do not give a reason they might draw their own conclusions, that might be far from the truth. They might blame one of the parents, and thus detaching themselves from him or her, or to make it worse, they might blame themselves.
What You can Do To help Your Child?
1. Reassure Them That it’s Not Their Fault:
This needs special mention if the kids are young. It needs to be reiterated that both the parents love them and that it is not their fault. Also, do mention that while parents might stop loving each other and separate out, they will never stop loving their children.
2. Do Not Make Them Choose:
It is a fact that children benefit from the presence of both the parents. Do not make them take sides. Encourage them to share an equal relationship with both the parents even if one parent loses custody of the child. This is reassuring and harbours the thought that they do not have to choose but can enjoy the love of both the parents even if they are not living together.
3. Encourage Routine:
Routine provides a sense of continuity and security. Even when the children come visiting, both parents should try to keep up a similar routine. Avoid going overboard with treats and do not allow them to take liberties. Parents should also stick to visiting or calling schedules. Not showing up without notice might be construed as a rejection by the children as they tend to get extra sensitive in stressful times.
4. Help Them Express Feelings:
Talk to them and listen to them. Encourage them to analyse, name and express their feelings like anger, hurt, disappointment and whatever else they are feeling. Support their feelings and let them know it is okay to feel that way.
With sensitive handling and care, children can tide over the tough times and continue to be close to both the parents. Moreover, this balanced approach also helps them see things positively and do well in their career, like other children, without getting affected. Read more
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Is it too late and risky being pregnant after 35?
Is it too late and risky being pregnant after 35?..I personally know so many who is having this doubt.some of them even put a full stop on their wish for a second baby, only coz they are above 30.. especially 35 !!
If same question asked to me, I would say NO...it's my personal opinion..I too became a mother to my second lovely baby, in my 30 s, especially in my 39 th!! Yes!..and I didn't had to face anything more than from what a 20 s pregnant lady has to face..like vomiting, slight bp variation , chord issue etc..and same issues and much more were faced by other pregnant ladies who were with me at that time, who were on their 20s...
In today's world, most of the ladies gets married around 26 , settles in life, then only thinks about their babies..and first baby comes near to their 30s. And it's unavoidable that their second comes after 35 only.
But there are things which we should keep in mind while planning.
First and important thing is whether we want this baby? Whether you really enjoy being a mother of a baby at this time.
Next is we should make sure we are healthy enough to give birth to a healthy baby.As you are growing older ,your health also must be in risk. So you must make sure about your health.If we are not healthy enough, it might cause problems to our new born. So if we are, our baby will be too!
In respect to our physical health, mental health matters equal importance.If you find yourself older to be a mother to a new born baby, you are spoiling the lively childhood memories of your baby.!.So you must be mentally young enough to be a mother of a kid, spend time, play with them..etc..don't make them feel they are born to a grandma !!..
And above all, avoid what society says !!..It's your decision , your life , your family , and your baby !!!
And am really happy that I became a reason that someone who put the full stop on their dreams for a second baby, erased that full stop and took initiative and is now enjoying their second pregnancy in late life.!!... Read more
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We have been complaining about the pandemic since the month of March from working from home to taking ultimate precautions in our daily routine. We have been just saying that we have not gone out, we should not go out and travelling is not safe. But we
can’t resist since the time the government has announced the unlock in many cities. So i have something to share with you about my unlock journey with Firstcry.com
I was planning for a road trip with my 8months baby as we were just bored and irritated with our daily routine. After hearing about the cases of corona and we being as new parent I was more concerned about my baby’s safety. I have been purchasing all
baby items from FirstCry since the time my baby was born and now in my free time I was just browsing through the website I came across this Luxury BabyHug forward seated car seat. I had a carry cot earlier but my baby is a growing I required a car
seat. My baby would require assistance with him in the carry cot but now I have to say this my baby is of cheer happy as he has his own seat like a big boy and does not require much of assistance. I only need to fasten his seat belt and he is all
free to sit, relax and enjoy his journey.
The material of the car seat is soft and comfortable. Additionally, the car seat is cloth material and not plastic or rexine so my baby does not feel tough and rough at the base, it gives a feeling that he is on his parents lap.
This is not the only good thing about the car seat it is best for children from 2 years to 6 years. I have got this early because my baby is tall. There are various colors available I have chosen white and blue as I wanted it to match my car color which
is white. I would surely recommend and suggest this car seat to all the new parents. You need to have a car seat if you are travelling with your baby. It is the best product for long term use.
Thank you BabyHug for this product. We are happy parents. Read more
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9 hours ago
Q. hi doctor from two days i am eating milk cream with sugar and i want to burn it in my stomach I am 5 month pregnant plzz help ??
Dr Ghouse
Paediatrician
8 hours ago
A. at present weight no exercise is other than moderate walking. if there is no relief it is better you see your doctor for proper examination particularly physical examination if there is need for doing investigations to find out the problem and treatment ok
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Guardian of 0 children
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Q. I am in my 8th month of pregnancy (last week), and for some reason I am continously facing lot of fatigue. I am feeling deprived of energy and I don't have any energy to do anything. resting isn't Helping in any way and taking small walks isn't too. what can be the possible reason and how to overcome this.
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8 hours ago
A. yes that can be both physical and psychological problems during pregnancy ok. if there is no relief it is better you see your doctor for proper examination particularly physical examination if there is need for doing investigations to find out the problem and treatment ok
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Q. hi,
pls advice , after hcg tigger injection can we do intercourse to conceive and till when we can do ...trying to conceive
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A. Hello dear! We understand your eagerness and concern. It is advisable to check with your consulting doctor regarding this matter. Clarify your concerns and follow your doctor’s advice. Maintain a good personal hygiene routine and a healthy lifestyle
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Q. Hello my baby is 20 months old he swallowed a earpod bur he is normal he eat as well as drink please suggest???
Charul Verma
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4 hours ago
A. hi mom
mostly it will be out once he passes stool
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Rashmi has added a new answer
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Q. Hello my baby is 20 months old by mistake he swallowed a earpod but he is normal is eat drink plz suggest??
Rashmi
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A. It’s fine it should come out into the poop of your child within 24 to 48 hours a lot of mishaps happened with kids these days but these things since they are not edible they do not get digested which is why they come out into the motion
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A. White spots on the body and face could be there sometimes, which maybe because of fungal infection or some conditions like pityriasis alba or some other factors some conditions are aggravated by dry skiniu, show a proper mousturisation is required. Also, maintain a proper hygiene and a proper assessment should be done to rule out any other causative factor
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