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Baby on the Way? Here's What You Should Start Now!
You’ve got the good news and you and your partner are ecstatic – your exciting journey is about to begin! Pregnancy can be a beautiful but daunting experience. Your body is changing by the day, your hormones are adjusting to the change, and you and your partner are starting to think less about yourselves and more about the little one growing inside your belly. With all of these things happening, planning ahead for the baby’s future can be overwhelming! But, don’t worry, because you’re not alone. Almost all first-time parents face anxiety in the beginning, and the best part is that there is a way around it so you don’t have to feel stressed out about planning for your little one.
Planning Checklist for Baby’s Arrival – 10 Things to Do
Now that you are pregnant, it’s important to start ahead with the things that will make your life easier once the baby comes. Plan in advance for the future, so you can spend your time bonding with your bundle of joy instead of fretting over last-minute decisions! Here are the things you will need to do before your baby’s arrival:
1. Get a good obstetrician.
A good doctor is essential for a smooth, happy pregnancy. You have most likely already picked an OB/GYN to help you through your pregnancy, but remember that it is important that you feel comfortable and safe around them. Choose an OB/GYN who listens to your queries and concerns and answers them to the best of their ability. It is important to have a doctor who supports you and your decisions, helps you make sound decisions, and ensures that you don’t stress during this time. Do your research, ask your friends or other moms for their recommendations, and make your choice.
2. Start exercising and eating healthy.
This one’s non-negotiable! Now that you have another being to take care of, it’s best to habituate yourself with eating healthy from the beginning. Eat fresh vegetables and greens in abundance; enrich your diet with fresh fruits, nuts, seeds, eggs, and meat. You will also be asked to take various supplements like prenatal vitamins to support the changes going on in your body, so do not skip out on them. If you’re regular with exercise, continue doing so and talk to your OB/GYN regarding any changes you need to make to your routine as your baby grows. Keeping yourself fit is beneficial in the long run as it can help you get through labour easily.
3. Start saving for your baby’s future.
Raising a child is no easy feat – it requires a physical, emotional, and financial commitment. As a parent, it’s a good idea to start saving for your child’s future as early as you can. Finding a plan that gives you the most monetary benefits can be a little confusing, so the easiest way to choose one is by analysing the returns promised in the plan and choosing one that is sufficient for your future plans.
The fixed deposit scheme by Bajaj Finance is a steal of a deal in this regard – you can get interest rates of up to 8.10%* as new customers, which can go up to 8.35%* for senior citizens. The interest rates vary as per the tenor you choose.
For example, if you are a new customer looking to invest Rs. 1,00,000 for a period of 24 months in a Bajaj Finance Fixed Deposit, the applicable rate of interest will be 7.90%. So, at the end of your investment period, your total maturity amount will be Rs. 1,16,424. With a minimum deposit amount of just Rs. 25,000, the longer you invest for, the better the gains – go on and start saving for your child’s higher education!
4. Join ‘moms only’ online groups.
Online groups and forums are great sources of support, and groups specifically made for mothers can be helpful for pregnant women and new moms. Find such groups on social media channels like Facebook and become a part of them – understanding the different problems new moms face can prepare you for what’s about to come in a few months. However, remember that not all moms face the same problems, so there’s no need to get worried!
5. Stock up on maternity clothes.
Your body is going to change drastically through the months, and needless to say, your old clothes will cease to fit! This is the best time to buy maternity clothes and keep them ready so they can accommodate your growing belly. You can buy clothes in bulk to save money and time – the best time to go shopping is during sales so you can save some more! Aside from clothes, invest in some good footwear as your feet are likely to widen and cause pain, and you don’t want uncomfortable footwear to cause more trouble. Comfortable shoes, floaters, and sandals are some of the things you can buy, but you can buy them a little later as your foot size will increase.
6. Look for good deals on baby gear.
Now is the time for you to hunt for good deals on baby gear. Essentials like cribs, strollers, nursing equipment, etc. can be bought, and you can take your time to get the best deals with the best products. The best way to get all that you want it by making a checklist of the essentials you will need and then go about finding the right product for you.
7. Baby-proof the house.
You can start off slow with this one. Gradually, ensure that your rooms are baby-friendly by removing any item that can cause harm to a little baby. Keep the knives and cutlery far from reach, keep glass utensils and items in cabinets instead of shelves, and make sure there are no sharp objects around. You can also invest in some baby-proofing equipment such as electrical socket covers, safety gates, baby safety locks that you can use on drawers, etc. The earlier you do it, the better!
8. Prepare the baby’s room.
If you’re further along in your pregnancy – like your last trimester – now is the time to start preparing for your baby’s arrival! Set up your little one’s nursery with the crib, comfortable bedding, pretty decor, and happily anticipate her arrival.
9. Read up on baby care.
You’re going to need all the help you can get to understand parenthood, and while there is no better teacher than experience, a little reading can enlighten and prepare you for life with a newborn. Get some books on pregnancy and baby care and read them during your leisure time. Understand what experts have to say about the nuances of motherhood, and don’t forget to rope in your partner so he can be prepared for fatherhood just as well!
10. Spend quality time with your partner.
Yes, the baby is going to arrive and it will change your life for good – but she isn’t here yet, which means you could spend your time making memories and rekindling your romance with your significant other. Parenthood is not going to be easy, and you’re likely to be up at odd hours feeding, burping, and cleaning the baby – your life will be more about your baby for a little while at least. So, cherish the time you have alone with your spouse to bond and reassure each other of the love and respect you share. Value this time, as it may be gone soon!
Motherhood is a rollercoaster ride and it brings with it changes you never anticipated. However, it’s best to get ahead of tasks you should complete before the baby arrives, as it will make your life much simpler post-pregnancy. Keep these in mind and start planning – good things are coming!
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How do you like to portray your child? Attention seeking child or Connection seeking child?
Many parents say that their children always seek attention, and they are attention-seeking children! On the flip side, some parents say,
My child might be having some problems!
I am finding it challenging to handle a child!
I am exhausted!!!"
Is it true that the child is seeking your attention?
Most of the time, it is not. Then, what is the child seeking? Your child is seeking connection rather than attention. Many parents choose presentations to make their children happy and avoid those fussy behaviours.
Do you think the child will be happy? Maybe, for a moment.
A child doesn't need your presentation; a child needs your presence.
How to identify if your children need your presence?
Children may be asking you to play with them
Children may be sticking around you
Children may be crying or sad most of the time or not eating properly
Children are complaining that toys are not working properly and many others
How to help?
Providing undivided attention means being attentive to your child without other disturbances like TV, phone, or other work.
Responding to the child at least one or half an hour a day. You can sit, converse, play, cuddle, hug, paint, sing, listen. Guess what? So many things can be done with your child to have a better connection.
Taking children for an evening walk, playing outside, shopping or to a friend’s house.
Important note:
While doing any activities at home or talking or answering, try making direct eye contact with your child. Hence, the children understand that you are with them.
Attention is one of the factors of connection!
Don't label your child at any moment!!
Your child needs your warmth, laughter, and support. Try providing your child with unconditional love.
Don't let your child down!
"Your child needs you!" Read more
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7 Murphy's Laws Of Kids That Can Drive Any Mom Mad!
Sure, your child is your most precious gift from God, and parenting is a rewarding experience like no other. But aren't there times when it seems like your kids make you think the exact opposite? Like when they follow Murphy's laws instead of abiding by your few, very reasonable parenting rules?
As you probably know, Murphy's Law is an age-old theory that states if anything can go wrong, it will. Check out 7 Murphy's Laws of young kids to see if your kid follows some (or all) of them!
Murphy's Law #1: Your kid will be on his best behaviour around strangers
How many times have you been in a social situation with your little one and the person you are talking to you innocently comments, “What a well-behaved kid you have!” And then you get all wide-eyed and say, “Wait for it! He just got here. He will be back to his mischief in no time.” Well, that moment never comes, and that person gives you a strange look. Which leaves you feeling like the worst mom on earth.
Murphy's Law #2: The toy your kid *really*wants to play with is the one that just broke/got lost
Yes, he has a basket or two only for his toys. But guess which one he really wants? The one that hasn't been seen for days, even though he has replicas of the very same toy. Of course, you will try explaining to him that the horsey he cannot find is exactly the same as the other horsey in front of him. Needless to say, he won't agree. And don't forget about the cheap roadside toy that fell apart in his hands while playing. He wants it right NOW, never mind the better new toy you have handed him. Kids!
Murphy's Law #3: His favourite food keeps changing. (Hint: It's what you didn't make)
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So there you are sweet mom, ready to treat your child's taste buds to his favourite dish. Your sweetling has had a long day in school and you want to pamper him because...because he deserves it, of course! Like he usually does, he prances into the kitchen to see what you have cooked for dinner. Of course you expect his eyes to light up with joy. What you do not expect is “You made pav bhaji again?! I was hoping to eat pizza today....” This after he had recently stated that he wants to have pav bhaji for dinner.
Murphy's Law #4: He will ruin his clothes like never before...after you have specifically told him to be extra careful
There's a wedding in your family and you have got him an expensive outfit. So naturally, you don’t want him to ruin it. You tell him to not play rough lest he damage his clothes. And guess what? An hour later, you are unable to recognise if that is really your kid or some street urchin! With patches of mud on the knee area and grass stains on his shirt, your kid has outdone himself - he has never damaged any clothing item as effectively as this one. Way to go, son!
Murphy's Law #5: Your kid will fall sick on the very day you cannot afford to miss work
So you have a very important meeting and need everything to go as per your daily routine. Yet the second you get out of bed, you get a weird feeling that something's not quite right. And sure enough, minutes later your kiddo walks into your room and declares that he is not feeling well. You touch his forehead and feel him burning up. And once the thermometer declares that he has a fever of 101, you make a call at work and tell your boss you will be working from home. To add to your woes, this will be the very day your maid will conveniently decide to not show up.
Murphy's Law #6: Your kid will embarrass you in the worst possible way... just after you have praised him for being a good boy
One fine day, your child decides to surprise you by behaving like a little angel that came straight out of heaven. Naturally, you praise him and decide to take him to his favourite toy shop as a treat. Exactly five minutes later, he goes completely rogue. He runs around in the store, pointing at nearly every toy and loudly pleading “Mama, can you buy me this? Please?” like he has never seen a toy in his life. And as you say no each time, other people look at you with the most judgmental expressions. More often than not, you end up buying something, if only to get those nosy people to stop looking at you!
Murphy's Law #7: When you are yelling at him, he will make the cutest face ever. And of course, you'll melt.
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Your kid has done something you explicitly told him not to, and you are ready to give him a good scolding. But right in the middle of your lecture, your munchkin gets that sad look in his eyes, and you instantly feel bad and stop yelling at him. You forget the enormity of what he did and calmly tell him to not do it again. And if he looks super upset, how can you stop yourself from hugging him?
True, kids can be a handful and know how to test our temper and patience. But then we were pretty much the same when we were their age, weren't we? Stay strong mom, and one day your grandchildren will avenge you! Just kidding ;) Read more
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It is Possible to Stay Positive When Life is Sh**ty! Here are 5 Ways to Do It!
Life is an amazing mix of good and bad, and as a human being, it is important to learn to accept both. Learning how to stay positive in negative situations is one of the best ways to handle life's curve balls.
When the going gets tough, the tough get going. This is the mantra you should apply to your life when you come across difficulty. Though not easy, it can have a huge impact on your outlook and can decide how well you handle the downs of life. Being negative is a normal reflex when you encounter a bad situation, but overcoming it is a sign of inner strength.
Important Tips For Staying Positive in the Worst Situations
1. Count your blessings
The glass can be half empty or half full; it’s all in your perspective. When a crisis occurs, it can be taken as an opportunity that leads to something bigger and better, or you can sit and cry about it. How you tackle the situation plays a key role in determining how you handle future problems.
2. Train your mind
Life is all about change. If today is good, tomorrow might be bad and vice versa. You cannot avoid problems, but a must-do for everyone, young or old, man or woman, is to train the mind to be positive in a negative situation. Learn to conquer emotions like self-pity, sorrow, frustration and lack of confidence. Looking at the bad side and visualising the worst is a vicious cycle and it can be tough to come out of it. Meditation and positive thinking help the mind and heart stay calmer.
3. Be in the company of inspiring people
Spending time with a friend or a loved one who keeps inspiring you with positive thoughts is a great way to temper negativity. Instead of looking for a shoulder to cry on all the time, look for someone who instils new confidence and will power in you. They’ll help you come out of a rut with a more positive outlook.
4. Engage in things that make you happy
When you face an adverse situation in life, try to steal moments of happiness by indulging in activities that make you happy. Exercise is a wonderful way to find solace as it not only boosts your health, but also refreshes your mind and makes you mentally stronger to cope with tough times. Reading, listening to music, walking through nature and spending time with children can also act as therapy.
5. Accept and move on
The loss of a loved one is one of the worst times in life. The fact that you can’t do anything about it only makes everything seem futile. One way how you can stay positive in negative situations is to accept what’s happened. Grieve however you choose to and as much as you want to. The good news is that time eventually heals everything.
Positivity is something you have to cultivate within yourself and it is only you who can nurture it. Keep your outlook sunny and see how much more at peace you feel. If you’re a mom, this peace can keep you from getting overwhelmed when dealing with your children too! Read more
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Q. #asktheexperts why my 1 month old baby latch every every 10 15 mins in the afternoon
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A. every 10 to 15 mins baby wants attention and all the time to be in lap so
dnt develop that habit...
maintain a feeding gap of 2 hrs...
always burp after feed..
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Q. Hello doctors.. I am 32 weeks pregnant... I am getting vibration feeling near right upper abdomen... mostly when I lying on left side it's getting vibration feeling... it's normal?
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A. Different women have different feeling during the time of pregnancy so it would be normal but if it is happening constantly with you then it would be good for you to get it checked with your doctor whatever is required doctor advise you after examining
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A. Hello dear! Try Babyhug skin care and clothing products for the baby. There are safe and effective for almost every skin type. Consult your doctor for further assistance in this regard. Good luck and take care
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Q. Hello Mylo family
Can someone help me to select the baby girl's name. We would like to choose our baby girl a beautiful name which starts from G, Also it would be a great help if it is created from the parents name.
Mom's name - Harshitha
Dad's name - Karthik
Thanks in advance 😀
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A. dear mum, the name of a baby girl starting with the letter G can be Gayatri, for example. you can do a Google search and browse the internet for all the options.
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A. This is a place which is associated with parenting if you have any questions associated with parenting I can help you with that but if you have any associated with your orders kindly check with the concerned department that they can give clarity about these things
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