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Unborn Baby Kidney Problems in Pregnancy
Kidneys help in regulating the electrolytes level in the body, aid in expelling the toxins by producing urine, maintain the blood pressure, help in the production of red blood cells and also maintain the levels of various minerals. Kidneys start developing at a much earlier stage in your baby’s life (first month). Sometimes your unborn baby’s kidneys could have problems which may cause other complications after birth. However, with timely medical intervention and monitoring, various associated risks which may occur at birth can be reduced. Read on to know more about foetal kidney problems and how to treat them.
What is Foetal Kidney Problem?
Sometimes your baby’s kidneys may not develop fully, which causes hindrances in their proper functioning. You may feel that you have done something as a mother that led to a problem with your unborn baby’s kidneys. However, most kidney problems result due to genetic glitches. The silver lining on the cloud is, these problems get diagnosed during your prenatal check-ups, and necessary steps can be taken. Such issues can either be treated medically or surgically, depending on the severity of the ailment. There are some problems such as hypertension, growth issues or UTI (urinary tract infection) that a child may develop at a later stage.
What are the Different Types of Unborn Baby Kidney Problems?
Kidney problems in unborn babies can be of various types. In this section we will help you understand the kidney ailments by their types:
1. Hydronephrosis
This condition is characterised by the swelling in the unborn baby’s kidneys. The swelling of the kidneys may cause the funnel-like part of the kidneys to dilate. The dilation may happen in one or both the kidneys. Also, the dilation may happen with or without any obstruction. Some of the common obstructions are Neurogenic bladder, Ureterocele, Ureterovesical junction obstruction (UVJ), Ureteropelvic junction obstruction (UPJ) and Posterior urethral valves.
2. Polycystic Kidney Disease
Sometimes cysts may begin to appear in your baby’s kidneys. When these cysts start growing, they may cause damage to the kidney tissue. This kidney ailment usually occurs due to genetic mutation issues.
3. Foetal Multicystic Dysplastic Kidney
Sometimes a grape or bunch of grapes like structure may begin growing inside your unborn baby’s kidneys. This kind of deformity of the kidneys occurs during the development of the foetal kidneys.
Causes of Foetus Kidney Problems
There are not many substantial studies available that explain the causes of foetal kidney problems. Also, the occurrence of the kidney problems in unborn babies is a rare phenomenon. However, the following are certain assumptions regarding the causes:
When the blockage occurs, it makes the urine to go back to the kidneys. This causes hydronephrosis.
Polycystic kidney diseases may occur due to a genetic mutation.
When the kidneys do not form properly in an unborn baby, it leads to the foetal multicystic dysplastic kidney.
How are Foetal Kidney Problems during Pregnancy Detected?
Here are some parameters that your doctor may use to identify if your unborn baby suffers from any kidney related ailments:
Any deformities or abnormalities in your unborn baby’s kidneys can be detected during your routine prenatal ultrasound. Around 20th week of pregnancy your doctor may be able to determine if there is any kidney related problem in your baby.
By taking out the sample of your amniotic fluid (amniocentesis), your doctor may be able to diagnose polycystic kidney disease. Similarly, tissue from the placenta may be tested (chorionic villus sampling) to detect any genetic defects.
Foetal multicystic dysplastic can be detected during an ultrasound exam. You can identify this foetal kidney problem in an ultrasound.
Effects of Kidney Problems
The effects of various kidney problems depend on its type and the severity of the condition. The foetal multicystic dysplastic kidney disorder may cause blockage in the kidneys and other complications. Hydronephrosis may lead to pain in the area between the ribs and the hips. PKD or polycystic kidney diseases may lead to fatal complications such as kidney failure. PKD may also cause cysts in the various other parts such as brain, pancreas, ovaries, liver, intestines and spleen. The complications associated with PKD may be mild or severe.
Treatment for Foetal Kidney Problems
Unfortunately, there is no treatment available for PKD or polycystic kidney disease and multicystic dysplastic kidney disease. However, your doctor may recommend some of the following treatments in case of foetal kidney development problems are detected:
1. In Case Of Polycystic Kidney Disease
If PKD leads to hypertension, your doctor may prescribe medication to control the blood pressure. In case, UTI or urinary tract infection occurs, your doctor may prescribe antibiotics to suppress the infection. However, if more serious complications arise, it may cause kidney failure, and your doctor may recommend dialysis or kidney transplant.
2. In Case Of Multicystic Dysplastic Kidney Disease
In this condition, your doctor will closely monitor the condition through your prenatal ultrasounds.
3. In Case Of Hydronephrosis
If this condition occurs, your doctor may try and clear the blockage or obstruction that may be making the urine to go back to the kidneys.
It is very rare for unborn babies to suffer from kidney ailments. However, if your doctor detects a problem with your baby, you should ask about the complexity of the problem. Once you know the severity of the condition, you can discuss various treatment options in detail with your doctor. With proper medical care and treatment options, you can help your baby feel better.
We hope this post has helped you understand the various foetal kidney issues that your unborn baby could have. If you have concerns, visit your doctor right away.
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Eating Duck During Pregnancy - Is It Safe or Unsafe?
You would have heard different things about eating duck during pregnancy. The stigma around it suggests that pregnant women can feel tired when they eat duck. However, duck is highly nutritious for pregnant women. It offers multiple nutritional benefits. We will know about eating ducks, their benefits, easy to cook recipes in this article.
What Is Duck Meat?
Duck is white meat, which is part of the poultry family. The presence of myoglobin classifies duck meat as white meat. Though people from across the world relish different delicacies of duck meat, the method of cooking duck varies from one region to region. Pekin duck meat is the most common duck meat eaten in the United States of America. Pekin ducks are also known as the 'Long Island' ducks.
Can You Eat Duck Meat When Pregnant?
You can eat duck mean when you are pregnant. Anything consumed in moderation does not have bad effects on the body. It is, however, advised to eat cooked duck when pregnant. Do not eat undercooked or raw meat as they can contain harmful bacteria for the expecting mother. It can result in unnecessary complications for the mother and have a possibility of harming the fetus.
Health Benefits of Having Duck While Pregnant
Many expectant mothers have this question in mind, "Is duck good for pregnancy?" Yes, eating duck during pregnancy is good. Below listed are the benefits that mothers can reap by eating duck during pregnancy.
1. Excellent Source of Protein
Duck is rich in high-quality protein. It includes a wide variety of amino acids a pregnant lady requires and meets the daily protein intake. Protein helps boost the growth and development of the fetus and build the placenta, red blood cells, and tissues of the baby's body. Protein generally improves the body's immunity, skin, nails, and hair.
2. Immunity Booster
Duck meat is a good source of antioxidants with the presence of a mineral called Selenium. It works on preventing inflammation and getting the body cells from being damaged. Prevent cell damage and prevent inflammation, thereby boosting your immune system. Hence, duct meat helps a pregnant to fight different infections or diseases that may occur during pregnancy.
3. Promotes Healthy Heart
Duck meat has Omega-3 fatty acids, which help develop the baby's nervous system, brains, and eyes. These fatty acids also help lower high blood pressure levels and thus reduce the potential risk of evolving heart ailments.
4. Source of Antioxidants
Duck meat has antioxidants that effectively fight free radicals in the body. The presence of extra free radicals in the body can cause different diseases like diabetes, cancer, and heart issues. Antioxidants protect the body cells against free radicals.
5. Excellent Source of Vitamin B
Vitamin B, also known as Vitamin B complex, is found abundantly in duck meat. Vitamin B complex comprises eight vitamins; all these are put together with help in multiple ways to the mother and the growth of the fetus and then the baby. Some examples are increased energy levels, brain development, neural tube formation, vision, nervous system spine, etc.
6. Rich Calcium and Phosphorus
The presence of calcium and phosphorus plays an essential role in developing and strengthening the bones and teeth of the baby. Calcium also helps in building the baby's muscles, heart and nerves. It helps to prevent preeclampsia and osteoporosis that are common pregnancy complications faced by many pregnant women.
7. Improves Hemoglobin Count and Avoids Anemia
Hemoglobin is found in Red Blood Cells within the body. These help in transmitting oxygen to the tissues in the body. Duck meat is a high source of iron content, thereby helping in preventing iron deficiency and avoiding Anemia. An expectant mother needs a sufficient quantity of iron for the unborn baby and herself.
Risks of Eating Duck When Pregnant
Below are the two commonly related risks of eating duck when pregnant. Read them to understand and take a conscious decision before eating duck.
1. Listeria or Listeriosis
Listeria monocytogenes is a type of pathogenic bacteria that are found in animal meat, cheese, soil water, etc. They can survive in refrigerated foods like refrigerated pates, meat spreads, ready-to-eat meat, dairy products, etc. When a pregnant mother consumes this bacterium through food, it can easily transmit the bacteria to the baby. Symptoms of listeria include fever, muscle pain, chills, headache, etc. At times the risks include meningitis, spontaneous abortion, and other bacterial infection.
2. Toxoplasmosis
This is a parasite that is present in meat and soil. This can be easily detected through blood tests during early signs and stages of pregnancy. If you are immune and have antibodies, don't worry about toxoplasmosis; however, the bacteria don't get killed during cooking.
Pregnancy Safe Duck Recipes to Try
1. Duck a l'Orange
Total Cook Time: 50 Minutes
Serves: 4
Ingredients
Duck Legs: 4
Butter: 50 grams
Oranges: 2 (for the sauce and garnishing)
Orange Juice: 200 ml
Red Wine: 200 ml
Chicken Stock: 100 ml
Honey: 1 tablespoon
Black Pepper: 1 teaspoon
Salt to taste
Instructions
First, use a zester to zest the orange
Now remove the peel and pith and break the orange into different parts – keep aside the zest and the parts
Remove the duck skin with a sharp knife. Then season it with pepper
Take a pan and heat butter in it. Now add the duck once the butter is hot
Now let the duck cook for 10 minutes. Now turn the heat off - flip the duck over and allow it to sit in the pan for 10 minutes. Ensure the flame is off
Make sure the duck is cooked properly without any part being left raw or uncooked. Now remove it from the pan. Set it aside and cover it to keep it warm
The next step is to make the sauce using the same pan
Remove the duck fat, put the red wine, chicken stock, orange juice, honey, orange parts, and the orange peel
Bring all of it to a boil and then put on simmer for 2-3 minutes. Continue to stir.
Once cooked, it is ready to serve
Carve the duck and serve it with orange sauce. Add some boiled vegetables like potatoes and carrots along.
2. Crispy Duck Pancake
Total Cook Time: 2 Hours 15 Minutes
Serves: 5
Ingredients
Chinese Pancakes: 2 Packs (100gms each)
Whole Duck: 2 Kgs dressed
Spring Onions: 1 bunch finely shredded
Cucumber: 1 finely shredded
Orange (large): 1 peeled
Hoisin Sauce: 120 Gms
Cinnamon Powder: 1 tsp
Ginger: 50 gms finely sliced
Sichuan peppercorns: 2 teaspoon
Five Spice: 2 teaspoon
Sea Salt Flakes: 2 teaspoon
Oil: to grease
For the Glaze:
Hoisin Sauce: 1 tablespoon
Soy Sauce: 1 tablespoon
Shaoxing Rice Wine: 1 tablespoon
Honey: ½ tablespoon
Five Spice: 1/4th teaspoon
Instructions
Preheat microwave oven to 170°C.
Take a large roasting tin and line it with foil, and place an oiled metal rack over the top.
Now take the dressed duck and, with the help of a fork, prick all over. Put it in the fridge uncovered for 2 hours.
Mix five-spice Sichuan peppercorns, cinnamon, and salt and make powder out of it.
Now rub this powder mix all over the duck, inside and out.
Put the orange peel and ginger into the bird's cavity, place it on the prepared rack and roast it in the oven for two hours.
Now mix the glaze ingredients in the meantime.
Once the duck is roasted, remove it from the oven. Increase the temperature to 200°C.
From the tin, pour away the collected fat. Now place the duck back on the rack over the tin.
Generously brush the duck with the glaze and place it in the oven for 15 minutes,
Keep brushing glaze every 5 minutes until the duck's skin becomes crispy and the duck meat is carefully cooked.
Now remove from the oven, leave it covered and allow it to rest for 15 mins. Then shred the meat and keep it aside.
Warm the pancakes and follow the pack instructions to serve rolled up with the shredded meat, with hoisin, cucumber, and spring onion inside.
Safety Tips to Ensure Before Having Duck Meat in Pregnancy
It is very important to take precautions before eating duck when pregnant. Duck meat needs to be cooked thoroughly before eating, at least in 165°F. Organize the refrigerator properly, keep the raw meat, cooked food, and ready-to-eat food separately. Leftover food needs to be warmed properly before being eaten. Ensure you do not eat raw, dried, or smoked duck meat.
Do not touch foods that are risky to consume. Ensure you wash the hands properly, rinse the kitchen utensils cautiously. Remember not to rub your eyes.
FAQs
Below are the answers to some of the most commonly and frequently asked questions related to duck and pregnancy. Read them carefully to know what options a pregnant woman can consider and whatnot.
1. Is It Safe to Eat Duck Eggs in Pregnancy?
Yes, it's safe to eat both the duck and the duck eggs during pregnancy. However, the duck meat and the egg need to be cooked properly. Do not consume raw meat as it can lead to constipation during pregnancy.
2. Is It Okay to Eat Duck Breasts or Duck Steaks During Pregnancy?
Duck meat contains two types of bacteria like campylobacter and salmonella. These bacteria get killed only when they are cooked properly at a high temperature of 165°F. Hence it is not advisable to eat pink duck. Duck breasts and duck steaks are usually cooked in rare to medium heat.
3. Can I Have Crispy Duck (Peking Duck) and Duck Spring Rolls During Pregnancy?
Yes, you can have Crispy Duck (Peking Duck) and Duck Spring Rolls During Pregnancy. Crispy duck is thoroughly cooked, and duck spring rolls are deep-fried in hot oil before serving.
4. Can I Eat Duck Terrine and Duck Pate (Duck Liver Pate) When Pregnant?
The answer is simply a no. Duck pate and duck terrine have a high chance of causing listeriosis or listeria. This is an infection that enters the body through contaminated food. Listeria causes very severe infections in pregnant women.
Duck is generally safe to eat when you are pregnant, provided it is cooked properly. Consult your doctor before you begin eating duck meat when you are pregnant. Duck meat has immense minerals, omega-3 fatty acids, antioxidants, and other essential vitamins beneficial for an expectant mother. Thus, it is considered a highly nutritious food. Follow the recipes, tips, and ways suggested to eat duck meat and enjoy your pregnancy period.
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Role Reversal in Baby Care: Let the Baby Bond With Daddy!
Time to feed your baby a bowl of dal rice? Or a fruit, maybe?
Wait, no need to do it every time all by yourself! Baby's dad is there to help! Just let him feed the baby for a change.
Time to change baby's nappy? Sit back and relax sometimes. Baby's dad will do it.
Hey mommies, how would you feel if it's actually happening in real life?
Sadly in real life, following is the most typical picture seen in most of the households - A mom, whether working or stay-at-home (it doesn't matter much), does all the baby related stuff at any time of the day as well as the night. Feeding, changing nappies, getting baby ready to go out, washing baby's clothes, making baby sleep are primarily considered as 'her' tasks. Many times, it's all done by sacrificing and neglecting her own meal times, sleep hours, and hence, affecting her overall health.
Then what does a dad do? He sits, reads newspapers, checks his phone, plays with the baby when he gets time or when the baby is playful; occasionally he might help in the above-mentioned tasks if needed. But will he be doing all these tasks independently, with all the responsibility? A rare thing!
It's time we bring some changes to the baby care routine in this new year.
You can assign one day in a week or some particular time of the day, when your baby is in dad's care, with no instructions, no interventions, no questions asked from your side! It's important to trust your partner in whatever he does, then only you will be able to actually use this 'me time' without worrying.
Wouldn't it be good for you?
You can be on your own, have meals quietly, have some free time, do exercises, finish off some important work, go out with friends or simply read a newspaper or a novel.
It's vital for all the moms to relax a little bit. It will help in maintaining good health and relieving stress. It breaks the monotonous routine as well resulting in better subsequent baby care.
Also, dad will bond with the baby in a different way. The baby will enjoy the new experience with the unique style of bathing, feeding, bedtime stories and playtime with daddy! Baby will be happier for sure! It will help in teaching gender equality to the baby right from your own family. It's also helpful in cases of emergencies like travelling, illness when you may not be there for the baby all the time.
So what are you waiting for? Implement the change and let your baby get showered with maximum love and care from both mom & dad equally!! 'Mom=Dad' impression will remain with the child forever!
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What's the Big Deal about Organic Food? - Top Nutritionists Break it Down
Organic food is the latest buzzword among health and fitness freaks everywhere, and it doesn’t look like this trend is going to fade out anytime soon. Health nuts are going nuts (pun very much intended!) to get their hands on all things organic, which brings us to the question - what’s the big deal about it anyway?
What is Organic Food?
Actually, this is the first question that needs answering, because it provides the main reasons why people are hankering after organic food. Basically, organic food comprises of produce as well as meat (and its products) with no traces of anything synthetic. Which means:
In the case of produce, it is grown with manure and compost, not fertilizers or chemicals, and pest control is established with natural methods, not with pesticides.
For organic meat products (dairy and eggs included), the livestock are provided organic (hormone-free) feed, and any diseases or illnesses are taken care of using preventive measures like a healthy diet or clean surroundings, and with no antibiotics.
So as you can see, the result of such processes is pure, unadulterated food that also doesn’t harm the environment! Some of the following are the benefits claimed of consuming organic food over conventional food:
The lack of pesticides used while farming makes the produce much safer to eat, and the food is fresher.
Organic food is GMO-free (Genetically Modified Organisms), meaning that there is nothing artificially altered about the produce, which makes the food healthier.
The lack of chemicals and hormones used to feed the livestock make organic meat products the healthier choice.
Organic foods have way more nutrients in them than conventional food.
Organic food is eco-friendly, considering that the practices followed do not harm the environment.
So It’s Definitely the Nutritious Choice, Right?
Now here’s where the confusion lies! There are facts about organic foods which state that they are packed with nutrients, right from vitamins to minerals to phytochemicals to antioxidants to you-name-it-the-food-has-it. Organic junk food is claimed to be healthier, meaning it can cut down on obesity and other health issues. But what exactly is the reality?
According to several nutritionists, there is mixed evidence or very little truth in the matter that organic food is more nutritious than conventional food. To break it down further, let’s go fact by fact:
There are a few studies which suggest that certain fruits and vegetables that were organically farmed may contain more phytochemicals than those farmed conventionally. But the size of the organic produce can be smaller than conventional produce, possibly due to the lack of external growth hormones injected.
The nitrate levels in organic food are comparatively lesser than in conventional foods. This is considered good, as high nitrate levels can lead to an increased risk of cancer.
The fatty acid profile (such as Omega-3 acids) in organic meat and dairy products were seen to be almost 50% higher according to a couple of studies.
Organic produce was found to have higher levels of antioxidants. This may be because they do not really depend on external or chemical protection, and therefore, produce their own protective compounds.
Genetic modification of your food isn’t harmful; in fact, it’s been carried out for centuries now, through hybridization, which basically means that you breed produce to possess desirable qualities. Unless it’s conducted in a lab with chemicals all around, genetic modification is not going to cause any harm to human health. The World Health Organization has also stood by this fact, stating that GM foods are no more unsafe than traditional foods, except in terms of certain matters such as provoking allergic reactions (depending on the person consuming the food).
Organic junk food is still junk food! Whether it’s cookies or cakes or other sugary or savoury treats, the fact that they are organic doesn’t change the other fact that they’re jam-packed with sugar, fat, and calories.
When it comes to agricultural produce, it’s important to remember the soil the plants are grown in, or the season, because even simple variations exist from field to field or season to season. The health benefits offered can vary accordingly.
Organic food can spoil faster owing to the lack of additional preservatives.
The summary? Going by these facts, the main advantages that organic foods have over conventional foods are the higher levels of antioxidants, phytochemicals, and a higher fatty acid profile as well. They also reduce your exposure to chemicals and pesticides. So while organic foods don’t really provide astronomical advantages over their conventional counterparts, they still do have a few health benefits. Also, with the way our planet is being harmed every single day, any eco-friendly practice undertaken is always beneficial.
Things to Keep in Mind to Ensure Your Health and Your Family’s Too!
For starters, quitting conventional foods cold turkey and completely switching to organic foods will not provide you or your family with any major health benefits. So, if you’re unable to find the organic counterparts of your favourite fruits and veggies, it doesn’t mean that you skip buying them altogether. The conventional products haven’t caused you much harm before, so why would they now? Buy the available options and switch to organic once they’re accessible.
Reiterating what we’ve covered above, organic junk food is still, very much, junk food! If you think stuffing yourself with the organic versions of your favourite foods would leave you risk-free, think again!
The way you cook your organic foods matters just as much when it comes to their health benefits; if you’re dunking your portion of organic meat in a pot full of oil and deep-frying it, it’s not going to be any healthier than its conventional counterpart. Cooking your organic foods in a healthy way is required to keep any present health benefits intact!
Read the labels on your food carefully, because even if it is marked as organic, a heavy dose of ingredients such as sugar or fat won’t give you the nutrition you need.
When it comes to fruits and vegetables, buy what is in season to get the freshest produce. Remember to wash it nicely and thoroughly to remove any dirt or bacteria.
At the end of the day, the choice between organic food and conventional food boils down to your preference. Keep in mind that the former can be more expensive because of the costly farming practices involved, and it may not always be easily accessible either. But if you’re looking for options that ensure a sustainable lifestyle and incorporate eco-friendly practices, organic foods may just be the right thing for you!
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My story I am mother too is based on my personal life experience. Things I have gone through when I failed to breastfeed both my babies. My story is dedicated to all the mothers who where unable to breast feed their babies despite their constant effort. Our society only applauds efforts of mother who breastfeed their child and relate it to the most precious experience of motherhood. We celebrate breastfeeding day yes it very important for a child to get breast milk but what about mothers who were unable to breastfeed are they less or don't have they right to celebrate their feeding experience. Milk in any form be mother milk or formula milk it is the most important source of nutrition to our little one. Mothers like me always feel guilty that they were unable breastfeed but so what we equally love our little one so does a breastfeed mom does.
My struggle started after I gave birth to my first baby boy everyone was so happy seeing the little bundle of joy but soon I realised my biggest physical disability yes I use this word because breastfeeding is such a integral part. I had inverted nipples or in simple words flat nipples which made my little one unable to latch. So I got highly disappointed and sad from core of my heart that I failed at the very first step. I still remember I asked the nurse what will my child drink now she calmly told me don't worry we will sort this out and mean while we will give him formula milk. I asked further how she said we will give him with spoon but soon I thought what if he chokes but my husband told me they are experienced enough to Handel the situation.Then in the evening I was allowed to meet family members who have come to see me and the baby.The first question everybody asked did you feed the baby I said no next question why not my husband explained them but not convinced by effort they said how can this happen you must have not tried properly .I assured them I will try again and then everyone started their breastfeeding experiences that how easy and best way it is to feed your baby. I was listening to everyone with my head down. I could only see my husband understanding what I was going through and every advice others where giving was hurting me from within because nobody except my husband understood what I am going through.
After everyone left I asked the nurse is there any way I can give breast milk to my baby she said you can express it in a bowl and we will feed him I agreed to her instantly and asked for a bowl she provided me one and started expressing milk with hand it was very painful because my breast have become hard and heavy with milk and it was paining like hell but to come out of the guilt that I cared nothing and expressed and expressed milk. Day and night I was just expressing The nurse asked me to take rest as I had c section but the guilt got deeper and deeper. I still remember the nurse came with broken syringe and placed that on my nipple and pulled it hell broke on me it was so painful but she did not stop I was crying but she said bear the pain you will be able to feed your baby I said ok I will bear it all for the sake for breastfeeding but every effort of mine failed. I got discharged from the hospital and real nightmare started as I did not know how to feed with spoon. But I thought I will give it a try but my baby chocked and I agot frightened to the core seeing him like this and due to this my mother told feel guilty you are doing best so don't worry and opt for bottlefeed but again everyone started how I am unable to breastfeed some asked me to tie my nipple with thread hard so that it comes out some asked me continue to pull it out with syringe I did all but failed and failed badly Everytime.
Then my husband took a stand and ask everyone to stop bothering me and requested she is a mother too and will do best for her baby. I realised yes I am a mother too so what I was not able to breastfeed I will always do best for my baby I will give both the best upbringing best nutrition best morals everything will be best. So stop regretting and celebrate your motherhood. Read more
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A. Yes you are right sometimes a woman’s are really light but if in 24 hours you haven’t even felt one time that Baby is moving or any of the so it’s better to get an ultrasound done one time you still have time to visit your doctor if you feel any movement it is all good because if you do not feel the movement within maths 24 hours it’s best to get a check with your doctor
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Q. she doing from yesterday at night time only once and she having breast milk as well as formula feed nan pro 1 ,I have concern about like this potty yellow and grey ,I want to know it's normal ???
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A. Loose motion are most of the time infective where it is associated with fever and vomiting and its known as gastroenteritis where symptbomatic treatment along wjith management for dehydration is required if loose motions are associated with foul smell mucous high grade fever than it could be bacterial infection which needs antibiotics treatment
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A. this needs proper examination to find out problems like appendicitis. if there is no relief it is better you see your doctor for proper examination particularly physical examination if there is need for doing investigations to find out the problem and treatment ok
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