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Head Lice in a Baby or Child: How to Get Rid of Them?
Lice are parasites. These small insects live on your scalp and suck blood to survive. Their size ranges from 1 mm to 3 mm, meaning they are very difficult to see.
Each louse, takes around 6-14 days to become fully grown. In this period the female mates and lays eggs. The eggs hatch after a period of one week to ten days. The shells of the eggs stay stuck to the shaft of your hair. The average lifespan of a louse is 21 days while a female louse lays up to 56 eggs in a single mating. The eggs are yellowish-white in color and one may confuse them with dandruff. However, unlike dandruff, the eggs stay stuck to your hair and are difficult to remove.
Head lice do not cause any disease, but having them is irritating. Your baby or child will experience intense itching and this, in turn, will make her restless. She may not be able to sleep in peace as well. Apart from that, your child may face a boycott at her day-care or school since having lice is considered to be a sign of poor hygiene. Also close contact with an affected person can lead to a healthy person getting the infection themself.
Most people think that lack of hygiene and poverty are the reasons for lice infestation. This is nothing but a myth. Head-lice like both clean and dirty hair. They love to settle down in all kinds of hair, irrespective of length and condition. You can find head lice in the hair of even the people of the wealthiest communities. If your child or baby has lice, it is not because she is dirty. Chances are high that she has got them from another infected individual, who can be your relative, neighbour, or someone in your child's play school, or even her older sibling!
Video: Head Lice in Babies and Children - Causes, Signs and Remedies
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Head Lice Symptoms in a Baby or Child
The most common symptom of head lice is itching. Lice bite onto the scalp to suck blood and this causes allergic reactions. Your child might not start itching from day one. You may notice this symptom after six weeks of infestation.
The other symptoms that you can be on the lookout for are:
Sores on your child's head that develop due to intensive scratching
Your child complaining about the feeling of something walking on her scalp
Irritability and difficulty in sleeping
Red bumps on your little one's head, shoulder, and neck
Small white eggs in her hair
Live adult lice present on her hair or scalp
Causes of Head Lice
Having head lice is not uncommon and more so, if your child has started going to school. You probably had lice yourself when you were small!
One in every five children suffers from head lice infestation at least once in their childood. Head lice spread from head to head contact and so your child can easily get them while playing with another child who has head lice. It can transfer from adults while they are cuddling your baby or hugging your child.
Remember, head lice do not spread from infested bedding, clothing, hats, or towels. So, there is no need to sterilize these things.
Head Lice Treatment for babies
There are different ways to get rid of head lice. Anti-lice shampoos and oils are available that you can use on your child to get rid of the lice and the eggs too. You can also use a lice-comb; make sure you do it on a regular basis till all lice and eggs are removed from your child's hair and head. If your child is already infested with head lice, a combination of both will give the desired results.
If you are using an anti-lice shampoo, the application will depend on the brand. Make sure to read the label carefully and use the product as frequently as suggested. In most cases, you will need to apply the shampoo twice with a seven days gap in between to ensure all the live adult lice and the newly hatched ones are gone. You might have to leave the shampoo on your child's hair for 10-12 minutes before washing it off, though this varies from one brand to another. Rinse the hair well and comb her hair with a licve comb while it is wet to remove all the dead lice.
It is best to consult your pediatrician to know which brand of anti-lice shampoo will be suitable for your child. The doctor will recommend the right brand depending on your child's age and her medical condition, also taking into consideration other health risks and factors (like asthma) if any. The doctor might tell you about the brands that you need to avoid. Also, if you're breastfeeding or pregnant, some shampoos might not be safe for you to touch.
Sometimes, lice are resistant to a certain chemical. In such cases, a particular shampoo will not work and you will have to look for some other brands. Make sure not to use any of these shampoos more than thrice as, being heavily medicated, they come with a lot of chemicals. This means, if all the brands fail, you will have to wait for a while before you could try a stronger one. Don't forget to check with the paediatrician, if you are thinking of switching brands.
Lice medicines that you can apply on your child's hair and scalp are also available.
Home Remedies to Treat Lice in Baby or Child
If you want to stay away from chemicals, you can use the following as an effective head lice treatment for babies and children:
Wash your child's hair and scalp with ordinary shampoo. Then massage a generous amount of oil or hair conditioner. (If you have an infant, wet her hair with warm water and apply just conditioner).
Detangle her hair with a wide-tooth comb and then comb her hair with the lice-comb. Part her hair into as many sections as possible and make sure you comb all the sections properly. Start combing from scalp to the tip of the hair. Conditioner-coated as well as wet lice and eggs will stay still and hence will easily get caught while you are combing. Wash the comb properly before you start combing another section. If not, use a cloth to wipe it clean and then continue combing.
Once you have finished combing all the sections, rinse her head again. Use the same procedure to get rid of any remaining lice.
Try weaving a piece of thread in the lice-comb and using it to comb your child's hair. This will help in eliminating the small lice as well. For the remaining, you will have to use your hands.
Make your child sit on a piece of a newspaper while you are combing her hair. If you see any lice falling on the paper, flush them down the toilet or the drain.
Repeat this procedure 4 times leaving a gap of three days in between two sessions. This will eliminate all lice in your child's hair and your child will be lice-free within 17 days.
This is how to get rid of lice at home. You can also use an electronic comb that works by electrocuting the lice. Essential oils and shampoos with neem as a constituent can also help in getting rid of lice. Olive oil, baby oil, and mayonnaise have also been used by many mothers.
Shaving off your child's hair is another option that you have. This may seem drastic but it is an effective method, especially for a severe lice infestation.
How to Prevent Head Lice in Young Children?
There is very little that you can do to prevent head lice in children. All you can do is warn her against brushing her head with other children. Also, you will have to examine her scalp on a regular basis. This will prevent the lice from increase in numbers as you will be able to nip the problem in the bud. Start treating your child the moment you see a single louse.
Do you Need to Keep Your Child Away from School or Nursery?
This cannot ever be a solution as you cannot compromise on your child's education. Make sure to examine her scalp regularly and treat infestation actively. Newly-hatched eggs stay on the scalp for around six days and it is only the adults that move from one head to the other. You can remove the newly-hatched eggs by using a lice-comb before they can move on.
Many schools and creches examine their student's heads from time to time. If your child has lice, the school will let you know. However, make sure you do your regular examinations as well.
Conclusion
Lice are common in babies and children, especially when they start school. Getting rid of them and keeping your child’s hair free of these pests requires a concerted effort, and may take some time. Regular checking of your child’s scalp is sure to help identify and resolve the issue before it escalates.
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Toe Walking in Children
Toe walking is a common practice for many kids when they just begin to walk. Most children grow out of it as they grow older and it is usually known to completely disappear after the age of three. However, in case your child continues to walk on his toes constantly, then you may need to consult a physician regarding this habit.
Video: Toe Walking in Children - Is It a Sign of Trouble?
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What is Toe Walking?
Toe walking is the practice of walking on the tip of the toes. Kids walking on tiptoes tend to not touch the ground with their heel as they take their step. This is a habit that kids learn as they begin to cruise around holding onto furniture and is deemed normal in children up to the age of 2 or 3. However, if it goes on beyond this age, it may mean that your child has made a habit of it or has other underlying issues.
Causes of Toe Walking in Kids
Toe walking in kids is usually no reason for worry as it subsides after two or three years. However, if it does not, it can be associated with some underlying causes and conditions. Some of the causes of toe walking in kids are discussed below:
Short Achilles tendon:
Children who have short Achilles tendon will have difficulty in stretching it completely. This may encourage them to walk on their toes and even prevent them from standing flat on their feet.
2. Cerebral Palsy:
Several types of cerebral palsy are linked to difficulty in standing and walking. Spastic cerebral palsy is known to make the muscles around the feet very stiff, which can cause difficulties while walking. Some premature babies may also suffer from a brain haemorrhage that can cause cerebral palsy and lead to problems with walking, encouraging toe walking.
3. Periventricular Leukomalacia:
Premature babies, in some cases, may suffer from nerve damage which can lead to difficulty in walking. This may lead to toe walking and other walking issues
4. Spastic Hemiplegia:
Sometimes, due to cerebral palsy, the Achilles tendon in the kids can be pulled up very tight making it hard for them to place their feet flat on the ground. This can encourage toe walking.
5. Autism and language delays:
Autistic children and children with developmental delays can have prolonged toe walking paired with speech and social delays.
6. Idiopathic toe walking:
If your child has no underlying condition leading to toe walking and has normal movement in the ankle joint, but continues to walk on his toes, it can be idiopathic toe walking. This essentially means that there is no specific reason for it and his toe walking may have developed by habit.
Risks and Complications of Toe Walking in a Child
While toe walking is common is many kids up to the age of three, the risk of developing idiopathic toe walking may be higher in families with a history of kids who had the problem.
Constant toe walking may cause damage to the joints and the muscles of the kids and even increase his risk of falling and stumbling. He may also be subject to ridicule by his peers as he grows, which can affect his confidence.
Diagnosis of Child Toe Walking
The diagnosis for toe walking is through a physical exam as it is easily observed. However, the doctor may also perform a gait analysis or EMG (electromyography) in some cases. A thin needle is inserted into the affected muscles or the nerve along with an electrode to measure the electrical activity during an EMG. If toe walking is a result of developmental delays, autism or cerebral palsy, the doctor may recommend a neurological exam or a developmental evaluation to identify the cause.
What is Idiopathic Toe Walking?
If your child walks on his toes even after he is three but is not diagnosed with any condition that may have caused it, he may have idiopathic toe walking. Children with idiopathic toe walking may walk on their toes constantly and keep their knees straight and locked as they walk. You may even notice that they walk on the tiptoes of both their feet and also stand flat on both feet sometimes. Idiopathic toe walking in children can sometimes also be attributed to a history of toe-walking with other children in the family.
Treating Toe Walking in a Child
If toe walking persists in your child beyond the age of three and you are concerned, you may want to get a diagnosis that can identify the cause of toe walking in your child. The right course of therapy and treatment can prevent the chance of damage to the joints and muscles. The doctor, based on the cause of the toe walking, may suggest the following treatment options for your child.
1. Physical therapy:
Stretching exercises and physical therapy can be used to treat children with a short Achilles tendon.
2. Ankle-foot orthosis:
Therapists may also ask your child to wear an ankle-foot orthosis. This is a plastic brace that holds the foot at a 90-degree angle and extends up to the back of the leg. This brace can be worn all day and in the night and can be taken out during exercises or bathing.
3. Serial casting:
An orthopaedist will apply a plaster or fibreglass cast in order to enable the tendons to stretch and provide your child with a better range of ankle movement. The cast will be changed every other week as the tendon stretches and will be taken out when the tendon is long enough. This cast cannot be removed when required.
4. Surgery:
If your child does not respond to other courses of treatments, the doctor may recommend surgery to stretch the tendon.
5. Neurological and development evaluation for autism and cerebral palsy:
If your child’s toe walking stems out of underlying conditions like cerebral palsy or autism, your doctor will perform a developmental evaluation.
Exercises to Help Children Who Walk on Tiptoes
Stretches and exercises can help your child overcome the habit of toe walking, especially in the case of idiopathic toe walking. Stretches help loosen stiff muscles in the calf and improve the range of movements in the ankles. Children with short Achilles tendon also benefit from regular exercises and stretches.
1.Calf stretch:
Your child needs to lay on his back with his knees straight. While he is in this position, bend his foot up so that it points towards his knees. Stretch the foot as much as your child can tolerate. Repeat this ten times on both feet.
2. Achilles tendon stretch:
Ask your child to lay on his back on a firm surface. You will need to bend his knee and carefully point his toe towards the knee and hold the position for 15 seconds or until your child can tolerate. Repeat this ten times.
3. Sit to stand:
Seat your child on a small chair so that his feet touch the ground. With both your hand hold his legs right below the knees and push it flat against the floor. As you do this, encourage your child to stand. You can engage your child in various activities like singing as you perform this exercise.
How to Prevent Your Child from Walking on Tiptoes?
Stretches:
Toddlers don’t have flexible muscles. Stretches can help loosen stiff muscles and provide them with a better range of movement in their ankles.
2. Ankle weights:
These can help lengthen your child’s tendon and help him walk with his feet flat on the ground. Always use the right sized weights and consult a therapist before doing so.
3. Shoes:
The right shoes with proper ankle support can prevent toe walking. You can encourage your child to wear shoes in the house often to help him walk on his feet.
4. Tactile training:
Provide your child with an opportunity to walk barefoot on different surfaces like grass, sand, a tray of rice, etc. This will give him an idea of what it feels like to walk with his whole feet pressed against the ground.
When Should You Call the Doctor?
If you notice toe walking in your child, it may be wise to consult a doctor to get a proper diagnosis. You may also need to call your doctor if you notice that your child,
Constantly walks on his toes
Has stiff muscles
Lacks coordination
Stumbles very often
Has delayed motor skills
Has trouble bearing weight on his feet
Begins to lose the motor skills that he had
Tiptoeing in children is very common and in most cases, is no reason for worry. However, if you notice that it continues even after your child grows, you may want to consult a healthcare professional for to rule out any serious issues.
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Eye Problems in Kids - Causes and Treatment
When you look into your child's eyes, you see a sense of warmth. The eyes of a child reflect everything - his pain, his joy - everything is written there. But if anything happens to his eyes, you start panicking. And there's every reason to panic. Eyes are extremely sensitive and any eye problem in kids should be dealt with carefully. There are numerous conditions which can impair vision in children and if such a condition is suspected, they should be referred to a pediatric ophthalmologist for further evaluation and diagnosis.
What Are the Common Eye Problems in Children?
Here are some of the commonly observed eye problems that affect children:
1. Astigmatism
It is a condition that affects a child's vision due to an improperly shaped cornea. If a child suffers from this condition the objects both at distance and near appear blurred.
Cause
The front portion of the eye (cornea) has a physical defect in its curve in the form of irregularities or flatness. When light enters the eye, the irregularities do not allow it to focus sharply on the retina resulting in a blurred vision. It could also be caused by an irregularly shaped lens.
Treatment
If it causes blurred vision, glasses are recommended.
2. Strabismus
This condition is commonly known as ‘crossed eyes’. In this condition, one or both the eyes are misaligned by turning in, out, up, or down. The eyes are unable to aim at the same object consistently. If this condition is left untreated and a child's visual function reaches full maturity, then it will be impossible to treat it.
Cause
This condition is genetic but can also be caused due to trauma to the muscles that control the movement of the eyes or the nerves.
Treatment
Strabismus does not recover on its own. Eye patching is used to force the brain to work the misaligned eye harder. In severe cases, surgery is suggested.
3. Short-Sightedness or Myopia
It is a refractive eye problem where children are able to clearly see objects that are close. But, the objects at a distance appear blurry.
Cause
The condition is genetic and an individual may get affected by it in early childhood too. The cause behind myopia is that light cannot focus on the retina and hence the object placed at a distance appear blurry. In this condition, the light rays focus images in front of the retina and not on the retina. This may be due to the eyeballs being too long or the cornea having too much curvature.
Treatment
Vision can be corrected with prescriptive lenses that need to be changed as the condition progresses.
4. Long-Sightedness or Hyperopia
This condition is the opposite of myopia. If a child is affected by this condition, the objects placed at a distance will appear clear to him but the object nearby will appear blurry.
Causes
The eyeballs in individuals with hyperopia are a little shorter than normal and the cornea has a flatter curve. This causes light rays to have a focus point that is beyond the retina when looking at objects that are close by. This condition could be genetic.
Treatment
Prescriptive lenses are used to bring the focus sharply on the retina.
5. Lazy Eye (Amblyopia)
This condition develops when one of the eyes is poorly developed even though it looks normal. The lazy eye functions less and the brain eventually turns it off and stops receiving signals from it.
Cause
It is most often a result of strabismus or when one eye functions much better than the other (in cases where there is a significant difference in refractive errors). The weak stimulation from the lazy eye stops the neurological pathways from developing before it reaches full potential.
Treatment
Treatment involves making the lazy eye work harder to stimulate the neurological pathways. Eye patches and special glasses to block the stronger eye may be used.
6. Cataract
A cataract is a condition where the normal clear lens of the eyes gets clouded. Cataracts can severely obstruct light, leading to vision problems in a child or sometimes may even result in blindness in a child.
Cause
Since the condition can be inherited, some babies are born with this eye disease. The clear lens of the eye appears cloudy as the protein that forms the lens clump together.
Treatment
If the vision is severely hampered, surgery may be required to remove the clouded lenses. The natural lenses are replaced with an intraocular lens.
7. Ptosis
This condition is characterized by the drooping of one or both of the upper eyelids. It covers the eye slightly and blocks the visual field. It can eventually lead to a lazy eye.
Causes
It is hereditary in nature and a child may be born with the condition.
Treatment
It does not improve over time and would require corrective surgery to improve vision.
8. Pink eye or Conjunctivitis
It is an inflammation or redness of the conjunctiva, which is the clear thin mucous membrane covering the whites of the eye. Pink eye is a common disease among school children and can be contagious when caused by a bacterial or viral infection.
Cause
Conjunctivitis is commonly caused by bacteria or viral infection of the conjunctiva. They can also be caused by allergies. The infection is spread by physical contact while playing or using the objects of another infected child.
Treatment
Antibiotic eye drops are prescribed to control the infection.
9. Nystagmus
People with this condition have involuntary, rapid, and recurring movement of the eyes. Instead of fixing on the object the eyes rapidly swing from side to side. They may also move circularly or up and down.
Cause
Children with nystagmus are often born with the condition. The area of the brain responsible for eye movements doesn’t function normally and hence causes the rapid motion. Injuries, brain tumours, certain medications, and multiple sclerosis can also cause it later in life.
Treatment
To treat nystagmus, its underlying cause has to be treated.
10. Chalazion
It is a small painless swelling in the eyelid that is caused when a gland of the upper or lower eyelid is blocked. It can cause redness and swelling of the eyelid sometimes accompanied by the yellow ooze.
Cause
Blocked oil gland in the eyelid.
Treatment
This condition may resolve on its own. it also responds well to eye drops or warm compresses. Severe cases might require surgery.
Why Is Early Diagnosis Important
Early diagnosis and treatment are crucial to prevent eyes from damaging further. Improper vision and inability to see the blackboard can make it difficult for children to learn and they may face difficulties in school. Sudden signs of eye problems in children can also be an indicator of other complications in the brain or the onset of type 1 diabetes.
Look for these common signs of eye problems in kids to make sure he gets the earliest treatment possible. Some of the signs of eye problems in children include:
A white appearance in one or both the pupils.
Continuous discharge or watering in the eyes.
One of the eyes seems fixed while the other moves frequently.
Oversensitivity to light or glare.
The child often tilts head to one side.
Books are held at a close range and they sit close to the television for a clear picture.
The eyes do not look the same or symmetrical, one may look larger than the other.
How Can You Prevent Eye Problems in Kids
There are numerous ways to prevent eye problems in children by changing their lifestyle.
Teach your child to maintain a good posture while he is studying or sitting in front of the TV or the computer.
Encourage your child to play outside and discourage the use of video games. Playing outdoors is extremely important for children for their overall development. When they play outside, they look around frequently, hence their eyes are constantly moving, which is a good exercise for their eyes. Also, exposure to sunlight is found to prevent the development of myopia as per certain studies.
Green leafy vegetables and foods rich in protein and amino acids are crucial for the development and maintenance of the eyes. They also have 'lutein', an antioxidant essential for good vision. So, make sure your child eats green leafy vegetables.
Regular eye checkups are key to discover any problem and to stop it before it gets worse.
Maintaining a healthy diet is essential. If there is a history of diabetes in the family, low intake of sugary foods is ideal to curb the onset of diabetes and to prevent eye problems.
When you suspect an eye problem in your child, take him to an ophthalmologist immediately to get it checked instead of waiting for it to resolve on its own.
Ask your child to wash his hands whenever he comes from outside. Do not let him touch his eyes with dirty hands.
If your child has an eye infection such as a pink eye, do not send him to school until his infection subsides completely.
If you notice symptoms such as squinting, headaches and frequent blinking, take your child for an eye examination.
Agewise Vision Screening Recommendations
Vision screening is highly recommended for children as it focuses on detecting eye disorders in them to treat in the early years of life. Here is the vision screening recommendation for children.
Age
Tests
Referral Criteria
Newborn-12 months
Vision assessment
Ocular history
Inspection of eyes and lids externally
Pupil examination
Red reflex examination
Infants who cannot track well after 3 months
Infants showing abnormal red reflex
History of retinoblastoma in parents or sibling
1-3 years
Pupil examination
Ocular history
Visual acuity testing
Objective screening device
Infants with Strabismus
Infants having chronic tearing or discharge
Children who fail photo screening
3-5 years
Ocular history
Vision assessment
Inspection of eyes and lids externally
Children who can’t read a minimum of 20/40 with either eye
Should be able to identify most of the optotypes on 20/40 line
5 years and above
Pupil examination
Red reflex examination
Visual acuity testing
Photo-screening
Ophthalmoscopy
Children who can’t read from the blackboard
With inputs from - https://www.aapos.org/terms/conditions/131
Although eye problems are a cause for concern, timely treatment can avoid any further damages. So, look for any signs of eye problem in your child and take him to a doctor immediately to avoid the condition from worsening in future.
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Then & Now - 20 Ways Parenting Has Totally Changed Over The Years!
Day after day, nothing seems to change. We are busy in our lives, running after our kids, trying to balance the household, and struggling to keep sane amidst it all. But one day when we wake up, hey presto! Everything seems different! Change creeps up on us silently, and often, we realize it only after it has happened. It struck us today how the world of parenting has changed too - and quite drastically at that. There's not one but twenty things that are nothing like they used to be!
Gear up to take a quick tour through these wild changes in parenting styles and realities. While you may not have felt them when they were happening, we guarantee they'd have happened to you too!
20 Ways Parenting Has Changed Over the Years
Take a look at this list and see if you catch yourself nodding in agreement!
1. Then
Babies weren’t Planned, They just happened.
Now
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Babies are planned after considering a lot of factors like careers, finance, health, and mental preparation.
2. Then
Babies were either named after their Grandparents, or on the basis of what name their Parents liked.
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Now
Months of research go in naming our little ones. Not only must the name sound good, it should be meaningful and unique as well, and that can be quite a tedious procedure!
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3. Then
Simple birthday parties were enough to keep kids happy.
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Now
Kids demand theme parties of their choice. Bring on the props and the prince/princess throne!
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4. Then
Kids rode on bikes with their parents without any protective gear. For the few people who owned a car, safety meant putting kids in the backseat, or on somebody's lap.
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Now
Car seats are essential if you don't want to get dirty looks from onlookers. And sitting on anybody's laps is an absolute no no – kids have a reputation to maintain, you see!
5. Then
No one batted an eyelid when seeing kids ride bicycles like this.
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Now
Bike helmets are mandatory. And going by the various colours they come in, they are very much in vogue.
6. Then
Kids met each other because they went out to play at about the same time everyday.
Now
Today, playdates and phones let kids know for sure when and where they will be meeting their friends.
7. Then
Babyproofing wasn't a big obsession. Yes, we kept our babies safe but didn't that happen naturally?
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Now
Babyproofing each and everything is any parent's top priority. There are tons of innovative products to let you make your home safe for tiny hands and feet!
8. Then
Cribs back then had lots of blankets to keep babies warm, and soft toys to keep them company.
Now
Due to inventions like the wearable blanket, parents do not keep potential suffocation hazards like pillows, blankets and soft toys in cribs. Oops!
9. Then
Parents didn't know what their kids were upto every minute of the day – and they were okay with it.
Now
Blame it on the dangerous times we live in, helicopter parenting, or simply wanting to be more involved, today's parents have a very detailed idea of what their kids are upto on a daily basis - or make sure that they do!
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10. Then
Kids got verbal praise, a pat on the head or a treat for being a good kid.
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Now
In addition to the above, moms and dads proudly share their kid's good deeds on social media. In fact, this is often the best prize!
11. Then
Family fun meant TV time, a meal at a restaurant, or a visit to the park.
Now
A visit to an amusement park, a movie and a meal at a multiplex, and a holiday to an exotic location - today's kids have extravagant ideas of fun.
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12. Then
Screen time was limited. Kids were often encouraged to 'go out and play'.
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Now
Whether they are indoors or outdoors, it's hard to keep a kid away from a screen. And to be fair to the kids, parents are no better sometimes! Phew!
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13. Then
While homework help was given, kids were largely left to their own devices for playtime. This invariably resulted in a lot of cuts and bruises.
Now
Today's parents give equal importance to education, extracurriculars and playtime. There's much more playing and spending quality time together - we're loving this one!
14. Then
When parents weren't around, “elder” siblings looked after younger ones
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Now
Babysitters and playschools take care of little ones in the absence of their parents. And they come with hi-tech means for you to stay updated on everything that's happening!
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15. Then
Some parents believed in spanking their kids when they acted out. Children who were not hit were considered spoiled.
Now
Even lightly hitting kids is frowned upon. And what spanking? Talking to your kids and correcting them lovingly when they make mistakes is the way to go. Now this is one change we totally adore!
16. Then
Thanks to their parents' strictness, kids back then were quite afraid of sharing their views and opinions with Mom and Dad.
Now
Today's parents believe in being friends with their kids. As a result, kids feel encouraged to be more open with them.
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17. Then
Parenting resources and advice came from friends, relatives, elders and the neighbourhood aunty.
Now
All that goes on...but we have the king of all advice. The Internet!
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18. Then
Bullying, temper tantrums, disorders like ADHD, literally everything was just put down to “kids being kids”.
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Now
Today's parents are fully aware of the different kinds of issues, disabilities and development problems that children face. And they make the effort to resolve them early.
19. Then
Toys were just toys - how could they be dangerous or inappropriate? Parents didn't usually mind what toys their kids played with.
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Now
Parents now carefully sort toys by age group and level of development.
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20. Then
All schools were more or less the same. Ditto for the admission procedure.
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Now
With the various categorisations of schools, getting admission to a good one has become an extremely difficult, competitive and lengthy process.
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Whoa! This looks like an entire universe of change! In fact, parenting has been one of the most affected areas on account of social media, technology, and changing lifestyles. Here's a handy tip to keep this from overwhelming you - listen to your Mommy Instinct! It is not important to embrace every change if you don't agree with it in theory. Do what you think is the best for your kids, and trust us, you will be sorted. Read more
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