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Your Toddler's Sense of Personal Identity
Development of self-esteem in early childhood may sound improbable to us. However, the reality is that as soon as your toddler begins to develop a sense of understanding of the world, self esteem and self identity comes as a part of the growing up.
'I want to go to school on my own Mommy', 'I can eat my food like a grown up'... when you begin to hear such sentences from your toddler, be rest assured that the stage of throwing tantrums, shrieking, screaming and fussing is over. This feeling of self-identity and self-esteem begins right from the childhood. As parents, it is our prerogative to nurture this spirit to help children develop strong personalities.
Developing Sense of Identity in Toddlers
1. The Development
An acute sense of identity begins to develop as early as year one when the child starts discovering his hands, his favorite toy, when he is being called out and such things. This automatically gets developed through the daily activities of the toddler. By the age of 3-4, identity and self-esteem for toddlers become extremely important as he can relate to other people and feels that he belongs to his parents and wouldn't want to make them upset. Simultaneously, he also starts thinking about his own psychological self like he is smart/strong/funny and can appreciate the physical differences like the colour of the skin and height.
2. Gaining Perspective
As your child blooms into a toddler who understands a conversation and can carry out instructions, his intelligence and perspectives also develop. Here are some of the behaviours that'll show how your toddler's developing self-respect:
Empathy: Your child begins to understand that everyone is a different individual and can have his own likes and dislikes. This helps him to demonstrate empathy, predict reactions of others and subsequently forge friendships.
Predictability: Your toddler understands that he is expected to behave in a certain way and he can predict your reaction in case he doesn't comply. You are the mirror in which he looks at himself.
Comparisons: Children start making comparisons between themselves and others in all aspects, both physically and ability wise. You have to teach him to have confidence in himself and never try to be like the herd.
Imitation: Developing themselves on their role model begins as early as 3-4 years of age. Be extremely careful of your behaviour as you carry the responsibility of another person's behaviour on your shoulders.
3. Helping Children to Build Self-Esteem
Here is what you should do:
Toddlers at this stage will ask a lot of 'Whys' in the day. Ensure that you answer all his questions with proper reasoning and provide as many facts as possible.
Teach them to forget incidences of the past and always look towards a future full of learning.
Encourage your child to take his own decisions and praise when he does well.
Communicate effectively in case of inappropriate behaviour explaining why you think so.
Traits like self-awareness and self-esteem are important in all stages of life. If you can help your child inculcate them in the correct manner at the correct time, then they will surely grow up to be self-assured and confident individuals. Read more
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5 Survival Tips for a Single Mom
Being both a mom and dad to your little one can be daunting at first. But, with the right attitude and a few survival tips, a single mom can don both hats with equal ease. A support group comprising friends and family will also help make the transition easier.
It's natural for every young woman to dream of starting a family with her partner. However, there are a few who have to deal with a newborn all alone. While being a single parent can be quite challenging considering the responsibilities and loneliness that accompanies, being one isn't all that bad. With the right approach and a handful of useful survival tips, single mothers can juggle being a mom and dad to their bundle of joy easily.
How to Survive as a Single Mom
1. Try to get Along with the Ex
If you went through a bitter divorce with your husband, it is only natural to not want to stay in contact. However, for the sake of your child's healthy and positive upbringing make sure you bury the hatchet with your ex. Be courteous and practical with your ex, so your child doesn't grow up scarred and torn between both the parents. You could even ask your husband to manage the children for the weekend that will give you some time to focus on yourself, while letting your child unravel the relationship with his dad too.
2. Focus on Important Matters
Being a single mother could beget financial trouble and emotional upheaval. However, this shouldn't get in the way of nurturing your children in a positive manner. Remember negativity breeds more sorrow, which will impact you as a parent. Rid yourself of the hurt in the past and stay positive. Keep your humour intact to lighten things up at work and home. Concentrate on what is more important than trivial issues like "what will people say/think." Make the best of what you have in hand and give it your best shot. As a single parent taking care of your children should be your priority. Instil good values in your child and teach him to be a good person. You will feel rewarded for your effort later in life.
3. Ask for Help, when Required!
Single parenthood is a tough job, which doesn't even pay. So, if you ever find yourself struggling between kids and work, do not shy away from asking for help. You can ask your trusted friends or your parents to babysit once a week that'll give you some free time to run errands or just go do your own thing. Don't feel guilty. You can't be so hard on yourself. Being a single mom in no way means sacrificing all that you are. There are a lot of nice and supportive people in this world who would be more than happy to extend you a helping hand.
4. Find a Flexible Work Schedule
If your current work schedule conflicts with the time devoted to your kids, be honest and talk to your boss about it. Do not be scared to speak your mind. You never know your boss might be considerate to your needs. A flexible work shift will not just lessen your mad juggle between home and work, but will give you quality time with your children too. For single parents, a flexible work life would also ensure that a set routine is in place, so the child then knows what to expect.
5. Give Yourself a Pat on the Back
Being a single mother is not an easy feat. So, all single moms should give themselves a pat on the back when they achieve small, but significant victories where their babies are concerned. It could be anything from successfully potty training your kid, teaching him how to wash his hands, to making him learn his first poem. Every success needs a victory yelp! Unwind and have a glass of wine to celebrate these small instances of happiness.
As a single mom, try to be loving, respectful, and truthful with your child. An open attitude towards life and parenting will go a long way in benefiting the personality of your child. Keep these survival tips in mind, and we're sure as a single mom you'll be able to tackle the most important job in the world with ease. Although, there could be days when things might get a bit overwhelming, the right attitude and patience will lessen the stress and make you positive. Read more
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Q. #asktheexpert mera baby 3 month ka h use gas bhuat banti h is karan wo bhuat rota hai
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A. it's very common for babies having gas problem ...you should recommend your doctor for this
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Q. Hi
what to give 6 months old baby to eat
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A. Hello dear! Once your baby completes 6 months you can start giving small quantities of semi solids like homemade cerelac, mashed bananas, apple puree, ragi and so on. Continue with breastfeeding. Keep Babyhug tummy roll on handy
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Q. now I am in 30 weeks of pregnancy I have vomiting.I couldn't control what the reasons for this vomiting
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A. Some women may have vomiting throughout their pregnancy. The most common reason for vomiting during the third trimester may be gastritis. Make sure you eat small frequent meals, preferably every 2 hours. If your baby's weight during checkups are adequate..u needn't worry much about this. You can also consult your doctor and take anti emetics and PPIs if the vomiting is bothering you or interfering with your daily activities.
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Q. Is it okay is the baby does not pass stool for one day?
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A. For breastfed infants it depends on age. During the first month of life, stooling less than once a day might mean your newborn isn't eating enough. However, breastfed infants may go several days or even a week between bowel movements, using every drop they eat to make more baby, not poop.
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Q. Is it okay if my baby does not pass stool for one day?
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A. Yes it is ok dont worry.
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A. Well you should check with your gynaecologist for that she has to go through all the reports and the issues that you are facing you and your husband and accordingly she can tell you what is the situation how your child is going because lot of things depend upon how the child is growing
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