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माँ बनने के बाद खुद को भुलाना सही नही है
बच्चे को जन्म देने के बाद संध्या अपनी घर गृहस्थी में ऐसी उलझी की खुद को संवारना और निखारना तो बिलकुल भूल ही गयी..भूलना क्या..दरअसल अपने से ज्यादा तो उसको अपने बच्चे की देख रेख और उसके स्वास्थ्य की चिंता रहती ! कभी कभी तो ऐसा होता की दो-दो दिन तक वो अपने बालों पर कंघी भी न फिरा पाती थी ! अपने सुंदर और लम्बे नाखूनों को भी काट डाला ताकि उसके बच्चे को हल्की सी खरोंच भी न लग जाये !
संध्या की गुडिया दस महीने की हो गयी थी पर अभी भी वो संध्या को रात-रात भर जगाती थी..दिन में सोती और रात को जागती ! संध्या का दिन तो घर के कामों में निकल जाता और रात उसको गुडिया के साथ जाग कर बितानी पड़ती ! हालाँकि संध्या को अपनी जिम्मेदारियों का अहसास था और बखूबी वो निभा भी रही थी पर ऐसे में वो अपना ख्याल बिलकुल नहीं रख पाती थी !
संध्या..जो हमेशा टिप- टॉप रहती थी ! जैसे कपडे होते वैसे ही मैचिंग ज्वेलरी और सैंडिल, नेलपोलिश से सजे नाखून और सलीके से बने हुये उसके बालों के स्टाईल के तो सब दीवाने थे ! परन्तु अब तो सब कुछ बदल सा गया था ! ऐसा नहीं था की उसके पतिदेव उसकी सहायता नहीं करते थे परन्तु बच्चों को माँ की जरूरत सबसे ज्यादा होती है ! आज तो संध्या के पतिदेव ने भी कह दिया था "संध्या..थोडा अपना भी ध्यान रखा करो.. इतवार को मेरी छुट्टी होगी तो तुम पार्लर जा आना" !
पतिदेव की बात सुनने के बाद संध्या ने थोड़ी देर रुक कर खुद को शीशे में निहारा ! एक आह सी भर कर उसने अपने पतिदेव से कहा "क्या करूँ..गुडिया के होने के बाद मेरे बाल बहुत झड़ रहे हैं इसलिए हमेशा इनको लपेट कर रखती हूँ..सोच रही हूँ की क्यूँ न इनको कटवा कर छोटा कर लूं"! संध्या की बात सुन उसके पतिदेव ने उसको साफ़ मना करते हुये कहा "कोई जरूरत नहीं है बाल कटवाने की..मुझे तुम्हारे लम्बे बाल ही पसंद हैं और फिर मम्मी भी नाराज़ होंगी..कुछ दिनों की ही तो बात है जब गुडिया साल भर की हो जायेगी तो बाल भी झड़ना बंद हो जायेंगे"
पतिदेव के कहे अनुसार जब संध्या पार्लर गयी तो ब्यूटिशियन ने कहा "तुम्हारे बाल तो बहुत झड़ गये हैं..अगर कहो तो कंधों तक नये स्टाईल में काट दूं" पर संध्या आनाकानी करने लगी ! इस पर ब्यूटिशियन ने कहा "जैसी तुम्हारी मर्ज़ी..पर तुम्हारे बाल इस से घने भी लगेंगे और नया लुक तुम्हारे व्यक्तित्व को भी निखारेगा"! परन्तु संध्या नहीं मानी क्यूंकि उसको लग रहा था की घर में सब नाराज़ होंगे ये जबरदस्ती ओखली में सिर देने वाली बात होगी ! जैसे ही वो पार्लर का बिल चुकाकर बाहर आने लगी तो उसकी नजर फिर शीशे पर पड़ी और अपने बालों पर हाथ फेरते हुये खुद से ही कहने लगी "कैसे पूँछ जैसे रूखे और पतले लग रहे हैं" और मुड़ कर वापिस कुर्सी पर बैठ गयी और आत्मविश्वास के साथ ब्यूटिशियन से कहा "मुझे नया हेयर स्टाईल चाहिये.. मेरे बालों को नया लुक दो"
अपना नया हेयर स्टाईल उसको बहुत पसंद आया..नये हेयर स्टाईल ने उसके अंदर एक नया आत्मविश्वास भी जगा दिया ! घर की ओर कदम बढाते हुये उसको डर भी लग रहा था पर उसने सोचा की जो होगा देखा जायेगा ! जैसे ही उसके पतिदेव ने दरवाज़ा खोला तो अनायास ही उनके मुंह से निकला "वाह संध्या..बिलकुल मॉडल जैसी लग रही हो"! पतिदेव के मुंह से अपनी तरीफ सुनकर संध्या ने राहत की सांस ली और पतिदेव से पूछ बैठी "पर मम्मी जी क्या कहेंगी" ! "चिंता न करो संध्या..कह देना की आपके बेटे ने ही कहा था" !
आखिर में ये ही कहना चाहूंगी दोस्तो की माँ बनने के बाद जिम्मेदारियां बहुत बढ़ जाती हैं पर इस बीच खुद को भुला देना भी सही नहीं है ! माँ बनने के बाद मोटापा, बालों का झड़ना, चेहरे पर दाग या आँखों के नीचे काले धब्बे आना बिलकुल आम बात है...ऐसे में तनाव न लें ..खुद को संवारिये, निखारिये और नये-नये स्टाईल अपनाकर अपना आत्मविश्वास जगाये रखिये ! बच्चा सम्भालना मातापिता दोनों की जिम्मेदारी है और ऐसे में दोनों को एक-दुसरे की भावनाओं और निर्णय का सम्मान करना चाहिये !
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Is It True That Children Inherit Intelligence Only From Their Mothers?
According to recent research, women don't just carry babies, they exclusively pass on their intelligence too. Fact or fiction? Let's find out.
Moms, this one is going to make you very happy! Who does your baby look more like? Does he have your husband's nose or your mother's eyes? The constant debate of who your baby is more like keeps changing as your little one grows and develops. But now we are here to tell you that as per some exciting research, your baby's intelligence comes only from you, mommy!
New research states that only the mother's genes determine how clever her child is, while the father's genes have no role to play. According to a blog by Psychology Spot, the reason behind this is that intelligence genes are located on chromosome X. Men have one Y chromosome and one X chromosome, while women have two X chromosomes. Thus, children are twice as likely to inherit their intelligence from mommy dearest. And even if the father does pass down some of his intelligence genes, most likely they won't add to the child's intelligence. The study says,"If that same gene is inherited from the father, it is deactivated".
But before you share this delightful news with your friends and family, wait a minute! Close inspection has revealed that neither is the research new nor is it true. The fact is, intelligence is a complicated thing. Not all of a baby's intelligence is inherited, maybe just about half of it is. Other factors like the environment are responsible for it too – both before and after birth. And there is no evidence to say that only the mother or father's genes factor into the child's intelligence. Nor is there any way to measure which parent is more responsible for their little one's intelligence. All in all, it's safe to say that whether your baby is a boy or a girl, both you and your husband are responsible for his or her smarts. Psst, check out these 6 Genius Ideas To Give Birth To a Smarter Baby.
So the next time your husband brags about being responsible for your little one's braininess, let him know this isn't the case. Of course, this also means that you don't get exclusive bragging rights! Regardless, you are awesome, mom. After all, you are the one who carried your baby for nine months, not your husband. And that is as exclusive as it gets! Read more
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The Real Reason Aishwarya Bachchan Always Carries Her Daughter
Our little children are so precious to us that we do everything we can to keep them safe. Right from the day they are born, with tiny hands and feet, until even after they grow up into young adults, they remain the center of our world. Silently in the background, however, time keeps passing. Our children soon become too heavy to lift in our arms! But Aishwarya Bachchan hasn't let anything change her habit yet - the habit of always carrying her daughter wherever she goes. Why is that? The real reason, which she disclosed in a recent interview, made our heart melt...
Aaradhya has now turned four. She accompanies her mom to some public outings and events, and from what we can gather, is learning to handle the media attention very well! But an incident in Mumbai compelled this Mommy to be doubly cautious around her daughter.
It happened back in February. The paparazzi and fans were furiously clicking away pictures in Mumbai. It was all very well till one point - and then it wasn't. The actress requested the mob to calm down, but to no avail. Seeing that the crowd was getting out of control, Aishwarya rushed to her car with little Aaradhya in her arms. But in the hurry, Aaradhya got hurt and started crying! Even though Aishwarya immediately left the venue without answering any questions, the harm was done – her child has hurt.
This is the reason this Mommy always keeps her daughter close to herself. It is the need to protect her little love, a need that is more important to a mom than anything else in the world.
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Aishwarya: "Aaradhya has seen it (the limelight) since birth and I would like to think she is used to it. At one point when we were walking, she was in a great mood, even as people clicked pictures. She was laughing and saying something funny. But when Aaradhya saw these people (photographers) coming, she just wanted to stop in her tracks and squatted on the floor. I knew it was time for me to pick her up. I just wanted everyone to be safe, including my child.
When people started caving in, I had to pick her up because she is too tiny to handle all that. I had to steer my way through the crowd. It is just a protective instinct, I keep her close."
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[caption id="" align="aligncenter" width="400"] Source: India TV News[/caption]
We love how this mommy sure has got her priorities right. You can never be too cautious when it comes to your child - and celebrity children can really have a hard time being constantly in the limelight. It isn't as rosy for them as we think it is! Aaradhya seems to be growing up in a loving family, with all her favourite people turning up for everything that's important to her, including her school's annual function.
In the long run, it is entirely up to the parents to give children a happy childhood, filled with love, attention and time. After all, the relationship between parents and their children is stronger than any vagaries of this world! Read more
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Benefits of C-section Panties
After waiting for nine long months to hold your baby in your hands, finally, you start preparing for the most important day of your life! One can only imagine the excitement and emotions going through your mind. But while you pack the hospital bag when you are heading for the C-section surgery, you’ll need to consider buying the appropriate panties which you can wear post the caesarean incision. Wondering, what underwear to wear after c section? Read on to find out.
What are C-Section Underwears?
It’s obvious that you cannot wear your regular panties after C-section,you need a special kind ofC-section briefs. C-section recovery panties expedite your recovery and also reduce the post-baby tummy. Basically, it is the complete solution for your postpartum surgery and will help you throughout the recovery process.
Why Should You Use C-Section Panties?
A specially designed C-section support underwear for women who have had a caesarean delivery offers the following benefits:
Speeds Up Your Post C-Section Recovery
A comfortable C-section panty provides compression, which reduces the swelling around the incision and provides support to the tissues which were weakened due to the surgery.
It helps reduce and shrink the uterus and removes excess fluids.
It also reduces the itching sensation as the incision heals. It contains FDA approved silicon which minimises the C-scar appearance.
Helps in Postpartum Weight Loss
C-section panties offer a gentle compression which supports the body to return to its normal shape and size post-delivery.
It supports the abdomen region without adding unnecessary pressure.
It can be easily worn under any clothing.
Recover in Comfort
C-section panties are super comfortable to wear throughout the healing process as compared to other regular panties which tend to rub or irritate the incision area.
The additional support makes it more convenient and less painful to move around.
It helps you recover in comfort so that you can happily take care of your baby without any worries.
C-panties are available in different styles and varieties, so find the recovery panty which is right for you and your body. It’s highly recommended to move around to speed up the recovery process, and the best suited C-section underwear will support your movements without causing any pain or irritation.
Also Read:
How to Sleep after Cesarean Delivery
How to Lose Weight After C-Section Birth
How to Recover After C-section Birth
References:
https://www.healthline.com/health/pregnancy/C-section-underwear#1
https://www.cpanty.com/what-is-C-panty
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